A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:ive been talking to a guy in his mid thirties on the internet on msn. he wasnt very talkative, and now i know 100% that he has made up a contact and is trying to talk with me as though he is someone else. why is he doing this? i havent told him that i know its him but i have told this pretend contact in a nice way to go away as to stop this from happening as the guy should just contact me directly himself and talk.
View related questions:
msn, the internet Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (28 November 2010):
Hi there. It's interesting he has created an alter ego of himself.
It sounds like he is a shy type, so I think it's possible he's trying to contact you again as someone else, to see if he can find more to talk about.
The trouble is, he is still the same person.
And already you have sussed him out! How long did it take you?
So how does this work? He pretends and you pretend.
To make it interesting, just go along with it and see if what he talks about is any different to what he talked about before the "alter-ego" thing.
Perhaps he is doing this to see what you say to him (with him believing you haven't tweaked to it yet), and then he might try to say you are cheating on him.
I bet this is it.
So you are cheating on him - with himself! You are cheating with his alter-ego. It's just a thought that came to me.
But the truth is, you just never know.
Rest assured, that time will tell how it all unfolds.
Keep me posted anyway.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): I'm not sure why a guy would do this, but know yours is certainly not the only case. Perhaps some guys will stop by this thread to help us out.
I don't know if telling him to go away was the nicest move, but understand your reasons for doing so.
Have you made it clear to him your want to be out and open... communicating like regular couples do?
-T.V.
...............................
|
