A
female
age
36-40,
*larisa
writes:i am dating a guy that has a commonlaw wife,and has two little girls with her.but i also have a baby by him we've been together for 3 1/2 yrs. and i'm pregnant.he fully helps supports us fiancually and comes and spends time with us everyday.oh by the the other woman knows about me. he tells me that he does'nt have sex with her i don't know if i should believe him. he tells me he sleeps on the couch but who knows what should i do? he says he loves me very much and i believe him but how do i get him to move out of this other home and into mine? his children are older than mine i believe my kids need him more. sometimes i think his afaid i might leave him sooner or later because his 43 and i'm 22. so he doesn't want to end up with niether one of us.what do you think i should do? please tell me if i should insist him on him moving in with me or just move on with my life?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 August 2007):
 He's got the perfect set up. Don't believe him for a second about not having sex with his other partner. He can float back and forth between two women and two sets of kids. When he tires of one he can go visit the other. No reason to change anything from his standpoint. Why on earth do you think his other kids don't need their father every bit as your kids do, just cause they are older? Nonsense. If you want to stay as corner of this lovely little triangle he has set up for himself then by all means, keep the door open for the cad. My advice is to get the child support nice and legal and try to someone who can provide some stability for your family.
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