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kahluababe2403
writes: It started last year.A certain person was asking me out for several months until I finally agreed.Then three months later i recieve a text off his g/f of 12yrs. He lied about being single to me and yet 7 months down the line he is still turning up at mine.Apologising for way he has treated me. I know in my heart I want to be with him but I also know i cant continue like this...Please help me. What should I do? He knows how I feel about him and he says he has fallen for me too...but I cant continue like this
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reader, kahluababe2403 +, writes (4 September 2006):
kahluababe2403 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to thank all who have replied with advice for me..I will take all answers into consideration..many thanks and i will keep you postedxxkahlua
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reader, Turgo +, writes (4 September 2006):
I would say dont go with him. From what im getting is that he was looking for somthing on the side. Even if he says he has fallen for you, what would stop him from leaving you in the future for another person, looks like he willing to do it here. Sounds like bad news to me.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (4 September 2006):
 if he has fallen for you give him the choice of you or her. tell him straight that you really like him but he has to get rid of her first and you will find out if he hasnt. there may be a reason to why his not finished with her yet she may be a mad stalk who wont let him go! have a talk with him and ask him why he hasnt finished with her. and also ask him the questions you want an answer too! only he holds the answer, and the way to deal with this situation.
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reader, ariel + ♥, writes (4 September 2006):
 You are right you can't continue like this.Don't give in men like him (I know you don't want to hear this),he is wearing you down.Soon if you give in you will be the bit on the side.Tell him to soart himself out and if you are available by the time he does then maybe you would consider a future .
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (4 September 2006):
 He wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you don't want to be a party to his scheme, tell him you don't want to see him again. . . and mean it. You'll soon find out how serious he is about his other relationship. If he dumps her, then you can reconsider him as a partner. But remember . . . he cheated on her with you, so there's a good chance he'll cheat on you with someone else. Once a cheat, always a cheat. Good luck!
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