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writes: Hi,I met a guy a few weeks ago-there was some flirting and instant chemistry but was spoiled by the fact he has a girlfriend-but we are going to go out next week. I am coming to the end of my studies and so is he so in a few weeks time we shall be going our own separate ways....to be comletely honest I am going out in the hope of something to happen but I'm not sure if he is since he has a girlfriend, is it likely my date with him will end in disappointment?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2006): I think the question is why are you voluntarily being two-timed?
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Sorry but you know he has a gf so why is that you are going on a date with him ? You are both on the end of your studies and wont see each other again, so you thought you would go on a date for what reason ? Just to chill and have a laugh ? Maybe he has asked you as he gets on with you and its a way of celebrating the end of your studies... and a way of saying so long..Im guessing he has a different agenda to you... Maybe he wants one last fling before he goes back off to his girlfriend, I think you need to ask him the reason hes asked you out dont you ? Because if he already has a girl, and knows this is the last he will see of you, then what is he after ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2006): it doesnt matter what we say if you like him youll do what you want any way,but let me tell you anyway people who cheat on another will most likely cheat on you.so,remember that when the other girl goes psyco on you both cause someday you may be the psyco!don't you read the paper?
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Why is he going out on a date with you if he has a girlfriend?
Why do you want to date someone who already has a partner?
Why would you want to be with someone who obviously has no respect or honesty with his current partner?
I would cancel the date and tell him that when/if he is single to give you a call.
Not worth dating men who are already taken - either it ends in tears or you land yourself a man who is a cheater.
My fear about going out with someone that has cheated on a partner to be with you is how could you ever trust them not to cheat on you too?
Find a single bloke, tonnes of them out there.
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reader, sassyalis402 +, writes (31 May 2006):
Dating a guy with a gf..i have been there and done that and let me say it turned out very messy for me. Because the gf found out and that was a very big scenario. The guy did pick me but we didn't last at all. Obviously if this guy can go on dates and have a gf at the same time, he could do the same thing to you. I mean whether now or later, there's a chance he'll make other dates without your knowledge and may even leave you for another girl. It's a risk that you yourself has to know if you're willing to take. My advice is,stay away from any guy who has a girlfriend. You know the old saying "Once a player, always a player" Maybe sounds harsh but that's how it is sometimes. Find someone who's single and willing to be with you when feelings are mutual. Don't settle for less because you will in the end up feeling confused and helpless and you can save yourself that heartache. Take care...all d best!!
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