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writes: Have you ever been with a man that fell asleep with you when you were performing oral sex? He was erect, all was well, had showed much enjoyment then all of a sudden I heard him lightly snoring. I did not know what to do, it had never happened to me before, he had been drinking, but still.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007): He must still love you. He may of love you so much you put him to sleep dreaming of you while doing your thing.
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reader, DrCynic  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 Relax... These things happen... If you ever go into standup comedy, there's a good set for you there, sweetheart.
Sex takes ALOT of energy... Any kind of sex... If you're drunk and tired, you're lucky if you can find your own damn feet.
Just relax... I'm sure he still loves you.
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (9 April 2007):
 Have a laugh honey, he was probably just tired and as you say he had a few drinks, they probably helped him chill so much he just snoozed with pleasure:) Sometimes guys are not that sensitive to BJ's and sometime girls don't have the technique perfected that will keep the guy on edge. Either way depending how much you like/love the guy and how he treats you at other times is more important that one incidence. I guess it might feel like blow to your ego but hey at least he did not fall asleep while making love to you! I've heard about guys passing out on top of their partners during sex which I guess must be more of a bummer for the lady. Next time bite him on the bum for a wake up call! Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): well the booze didnt help things--and maybe he has sleep apnea, which makes a person fall asleep really fast, because they are so exhausted from lack of sleep---the same thing happened to my girlfriend--in the middle of love-making--he started snoring and was sleeping right in the middle of it all-----she told him the next day, and he was embarrased---he recently got a machine to help him with his sleep apnea....which caused the falling asleep
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 April 2007):
 If he had been drinking, I would not be pleased, but, it would definately be understandable. It's kind of flattering in a way, he was in his comfort zone and did not think that drifting off was a problem! It would be pretty normal for his age and under the circumstances (drinking), so be content with the fact that he "showed much enjoyment", before he started snoring lightly! I would just be and be happy that he didn't snore much louder!!!
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reader, maryann61181 +, writes (9 April 2007):
 I'm sorry this is a little funny to me. I know how you feel though, because I have had this happen before as well and I agree that it is irritating. When oral sex is performed on a man, it relaxes them - especially if they are really enjoying it. Try not performing oral sex on him too long and take breaks to make sure that he is still awake :) When you find that he is becoming too relaxed, stop and try using your hand. Men do some strange things when it comes to sex. Each time that my ex and I had sex, he would fall asleep right after. Maybe it just takes alot of energy out of them. Us women could almost go forever - at least if it's done right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): hunni, i wouldnt worry! i recon he had, had few drinks then when he got home he got so relaxed and prob felt really nice when u was giving him head it made him to relaxed then boom he fell asleep im sorry hun it happened but dont take it personally! it happens to all of us babe!
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