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*abriela1993!
writes:Well my bf and me, have been going out for like a month now, and there are some things that he does, that i absolutely detest, and i dont know if i have the right to or not. For example, he wants me to pay for everything, i once caught him looking at a girl, he doesnt hold my hand, and on top of that, he wont put on facebok that we're a couple, or even include me in a status. I havent met his parents yet, and apparently, he has no concern to do that. What do you guys think about this??????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): I read your other questions, and I think he just want sex from you, because he is not saying to anyone that you are couple and wont show it.
relationship is about giving and getting, and he is won't give, you need to tell him how you feel about that, and then decide what you want to do next.
good luck
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 I realize that Tunisia is another country and the culture is different, but this behaviour isn't cool in any country. The way he's treating you isn't an acceptable way to treat a real girlfriend. He's being really disrespectful to you. Have you talked to him about how you're feeling?
What do you mean when you say you don't know if you have the right to? You're entitled to your feelings, and you deserve respect!
It could be that he was never taught how to treat a girlfriend and that he's just being thoughtless. If you really love him I would talk to him, and tell him that it makes you feel bad when he does these things. If he's worth it, he'll change.
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