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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I really need some advice from anyone. The guy ive fallen for told me he doesnt see me that way and just wants us to be friends. I feel really crushed ive never liked anyone like this before. I cant stop thinking about him and i see him everyday which makes it so much harder. Ive just sat here and cried i feel so pathetic. I want to start getting over him but i have to face him again and i just dont know what to do i feel like my hearts been ripped out my chest i just dont know how i should react now :(
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reader, CollegeCutie  +, writes (8 January 2012):
 im thinking you already know you should move on and me telling you this isnt going to matter. I know how you feel it sucks when feelings with another person arent shared. BUT im going to give you the alternative to getting over him. aka getting him to change his mind. THIS IS NOT ADVICE.lol. ok so as i have found over the years guys are very easily manipulated as in you can get thim to think what you want quite easily. I am not saying change who you are just adjust some aspects to match his. show him that you have the same interests, let him see you only at your best. this only has to last a little while just so you can stay on his mind and such. these are just a 2 small tips. if you want a list of what may help change his mind inbox me with a more in depth description of your situation with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): i am sorry to say this, and you probably don't wanna hear it, but you should move on... i know it's hard to see it now but there are lots of other guys out there for you, so you only hurt yourself by thinking about him all the time... cry, mourn for the relationship that never started, but move on dear...
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