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writes: I asked a boy out a week ago and we have arranged to go out next week. He is very busy at the moment looking for a new job etc and he told me last week he had an interview this week so i xted him good luck. and he didnt txt back to say thank you.Has he gone off me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): I went out last week and i saw this guy who i normally see when i go out i have known him for just under a year and we never really talked only said hi. But when i went out he noticed me and we hit it off really well he said all the things that i wanted in a relation ship. we stayed out really late and i txt him saying i got home ok because he asked me to then he sent one back from a phone box, but i sent another one saying thanx then 2 days later another one with a genral question but i have had no reply? has he gone off me already?
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (25 May 2006):
 It's probably too early to worry. As hannieseds writes, he has a lot on his plate, and maybe a thanks message slipped his mind.
Be patient, and receptive if he texts again before you meet. In fact, maybe --given that he's probably really rushed and confused-- you might text to say that you're looking forward to your date next week. Just friendly, and with no strings.
It serves as a gentle reminder, and might even give him a good reason to text you back!
So, take it easy and try not to read too much into his actions, or lack thereof, at least until you know him better and his life slows down.
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (25 May 2006):
 Hi there,
I wouldn't worry too much about this. Sounds to me like he has a lot on at the moment and I'm sure he would have been very grateful to get a 'good luck' text from a perhaps future girlfriend. Don't read anything into him not texting back a thank you, he probably didn't feel he needed to or maybe even was about to but suddenly got side-tracked?
There are a number of different possibilities to why he didn't, but it would be wrong of you to assume the worst before considering the other reasons. Just play it cool, enjoy your date with him and maybe casually drop into the conversation 'Did you get my good luck text last week' and see what he says, chances are he meant to. Have fun! xxx
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