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30-35,
anonymous
writes: hey.my boyfriend and i have been in an l.d.r for over a year now. we met the day he was leaving for u.k and fell in love in the few hours we spent together that day. at first we talked everyday and i was so in love but then he cut contact with me and i felt so alone. he came back after a year and said he was broke at that time and that is why he couldnt keep in touch. i forgave him and we got back together. his holiday lasted 3 months and we spent as much time as possible together but we fought almost everyday. but i loved him so much so i put up with all of it. now he has gone back to u.k and he has stopped contacting me like he did the last time. not wanting to go through the same pain i did the last time i decided to end things and he said a lot of mean things to me. the funny thing is; i dont know if i still love him or not; but am scared i wont find someone to care about as much. should i try to work things out with him? maybe am being too demanding. maybe he really is busy and broke? please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): I doubt you'd fall in love in a few hours. I think he probably found you attractive and got your number etc... He probably has a girlfriend in the UK and just wants a bit of fun and a holiday. Don't waste anymore time on him. You can do much better.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (12 November 2010):
 His excuse is very poor and utter crap...He could utilize free websites such as SKYPE, MSN, Yahoo messenger rather than international calling. Did he tell you it was over when he went abroad? Or did he just silently dump you? Either way, you shouldn't be taking him back every time..he's lying and making a fool out of you. Let him go and move on to better guys.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (12 November 2010):
Move on, you are wasting your time and have a more realistic chance of finding someone else you get on with better and see more if they are in your own country.
This bloke is clearly not interested.
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