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Can't finish masturbating?

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Question - (12 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

well im a girl and im having my first attempts at masturbating, lol, the thing is, when i start rubbing my clit i can't go on with it, it's not like "painful" but i just feel like i have to stop? not because i think it's wrong or anything like that, it's just a bit of an overwhelming feeling? any advive would be really great, thanx

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A female reader, Natalie:) United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2010):

Natalie:) agony auntIt's normal for girls to be overwhelmed by those feelings. You just need to get used to it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010):

Oh honey, the overwhelming feeling is suppose to happen. Your body is probably just not used to the feeling. You are most likely approaching the Big O.

BTW I would just like to say, masturbation is a part of life and what you are doing is not wrong. Good for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010):

Hmm...its just an overwhelming feeling...you have to keep on rubbing it for ten - fifteen or even more minutes...the moment u feel the intense feeling come...don't let up...continue - you'll feel waves of pleasure....its awesome!

And if you still can't cum...try using water...guide a gentle stream of water onto ur clit...make sure nothing goes inside ur vagina though...i use warm water as it works for me...experiment with what you like...this definitely has to work:)

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (12 November 2010):

dirtball agony auntDon't do anything your body tells you not to. If it's that you're coming close and the stimulation is too much, then maybe you need to use something else. Do you have a detachable shower head? I hear the massage setting on most of those does the trick. I'd recommend a vibrator, but you're a bit young to purchase one.

Golden rule, trust what your body tells you.

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