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writes: I have been with my boyfriend nearly 5 years. We went out together when we were young then split when I was 16.Never seen him for years. I had a relationship for 11 years and have 3 kids. It ended although I was in it I could not help but think of my ex all the time, even when I had my kids. When my relationship ended I was curious about what my first boyfriend was like, as I had not seen him for 18 years. I know he had a partner but I wanted to see him. I did, we got chatting about his past and then he asked me to get back with him. I said yes but he still lives with his ex and kids. We have a baby boy together and his ex knows that he is seeing me still but he has never stayed over at my house and he always leaves near the same time every night. We have had number of arguments over it, but he says it is because I have 3 girls, two of which are teenagers. He says that he would feel embarrassed if they get up to go the loo or walked around with a towel on them. I told him I would talk to them, but he comes up with other excuses. I love him to bits but it is getting me down because we talk about it but nothing comes of it.He comes around same time of a night but when we argue he comes around earlier for a couple of nights and then goes back the same way as before. I don't want to lose him. Could you please help me? thank you
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reader, becky05 +, writes (19 July 2005):
Im afraid you dont have him to lose him.You have made yourself a convenience for this man and regardless of his relationship with his wife you sre still the 'other woman'.
If he wont change then you will have to break off the relationship for your own sake.
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