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writes:I have been with my boyfriend about 7years,and bout 4 years ago he cheated on me and ever since we haven't had sex, and i do want but its him that is saying he is not ready, and i really want to have kids soon and he is saying that he don't know when will he be ready to have one, he say he love me and and love him too, but i'm so confused at moment and don't really know what to do, stay or go and i know that its not going to be easy, i think that i have to do what is best for me.so i don't really know if i should wait for him or not, so please if you guys have any advise please help me.thank youkost
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2009): I hate to tell you, but if you guys haven't had sex in 4 years, I don't see that changing any time soon, and I can't help but think he's getting satisfaction somewhere else. I don't know any man who has been sexually active that will go 4 years without having sex with his girlfriend if there aren't much bigger issues or possibly another party involved. Sex isn't the most important part of a relationship, but in our society it is a huge part nevertheless. You need to tell him exactly how you feel about this and seek counseling. Also, decide just how important sex is in your relationship, and if this is worth sticking around for. Just my two cents.
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reader, Tewebag  +, writes (19 February 2009):
honestly i dont know of any guys, myself also, that would willing go that long without sex. theres something more than hes just not ready. i personally doubt he is going to ever be ready to have sex with you again after that long of a time.
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