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writes:hi,i chose a boy over my bf nd i think i made the right choice we r a lot more affectionate nd i luv him. But he is a bit of a naughty boy! nd likes to ask my m8's to do stuff, just like showin him their bra's. they hav always sed no but i dont know whether i should trust them cause they all fancy him(they've told me) i also dont know wether i trust him though he says he'll stop cause he luvs me so muchwat should i doplz helpthnxsxxx Reply to this Question |
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reader, sassymouse +, writes (11 May 2008):
 Ask him to stop. tell him you're not comfortable with him asking to see your friends bras!! who would be!! give him a chance to sort this behaviour out and if he doesnt get rid! its been said before-you deserve better! good luck x
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reader, Angel Baby  +, writes (11 May 2008):
Honey, you need to drop him like a hot potata!!! I totally agree with Starfairy!!! You can do so much better! That's a very awful thing for him to do! If he really loved you, he would have never done it in the first place.
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reader, whateveryousay +, writes (11 May 2008):
 ya i think hes just a normal guy cuz i honestly think all boys are like that inside do what ur heart tells u to do!
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reader, bubbloo24  + ♥, writes (10 May 2008):
 TOTALLY agree with Starfairy.
Get rid of him, he sounds like a slimeball.
xxx
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reader, Andrew83 +, writes (10 May 2008):
 My advice is to move on.
If this is what he's doin now what could he be doin in a cupple of months time or even years later..
Think about your self.
I cant see how he can love you really when he's askin your friends to show parts or even all their body.
Trust is one key point in a relationship, if thats broken then it will make things harder to patch up.
Hope this and what starfairy has said helps you. best of luck to you.
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reader, starfairy + ♥, writes (10 May 2008):
 NO!! Why would you trust a guy who wants to see your friends get half naked?? If he's asking your FRIENDS to do things, can you imagine what he's asking the girls who you don't know/will never hear about??
You deserve much better than this...
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reader, Kimaxsi +, writes (10 May 2008):
He's definitely a flirt whether its harmless or not I don't know. I actually did know a guy his nature was flirty/playful but he loved his wife to bits and would never cheat on her or anything. Still it is sort of a troubling sign. Tell him honestly how it makes you feel, which behaviors are not cool with you, and see if he refrains from those behaviors. Don't try and change his whole nature, just say if there's specific things he does that hurt you and tell him so. Has he ever done anything you felt was really inappropriate? Or is he just a bit of a perv. I am a bit of a perv myself really, sort of like a dude kind of perverted lol But I love my man too and would never betray him.
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