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He asked where he would cum and asked if I could lick it off.

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Question - (7 July 2007) 12 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend were discussing oral sex and then I told him I wasn't really ready for oral but I would give him a hand job, so he asked where he would cum and asked if I could lick it off. Would it taste bitter like everyone says because it's going through my whole mouth not just my throat??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008):

From experience, I can tell you the taste varies.

There is a lot of reasoning and detail behind this!

We do not all like the same tastes, neither to we have the same tastes in our mouths.....

Irrelavant of the taste, the fun and enjoyment is grat, concentrate on that!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007):

Honestly I think if you are willing to do this in the first place(which I don't think is that bad) I would think getting it all in your mouth is better than licking it because you could spit it all out. If you lick it up it seems more like your eating it or something and you would have to just swallow. But again don't do any of this if you are not ready.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007):

Hi love,

At the end of the day its what you feel comfortable with, personally my relationship would have to be a strong and loving one to go into this area, But the girls are right, it does depends on what he eats to a certain degree. its like everything in life some like it some not... just be safe and comfortable with yourself love. TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, flyingskirt United States +, writes (8 July 2007):

if you're not ready for oral then don't lick anything off. if you're not ready then the cum will be worse to you than the BJ.

any sperm-and-mouth activity is considered a "dirty" sex act which is lots of fun for long term partners and folks that like "taboo" sex but if you're inexperienced it'll just leave you emotionally scarred.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007):

just to let you know the taste also depends on that persons hygiene.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntIf you don't feel comfortable doing it then don't. I am a firm believer in trying something once and if you don't like it don't do it again!

Try it and see what you think. Some guys cum is more bitter then others and it can vary in the same guy depending on what they have had to eat or drink or smoke.

Smoking weed, drinking a lot of alcohol, lots of salt in a diet etc can make cum bitter. Fresh fruit can make it not so bitter :)

xxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntIf he comes in your mouth it would taste far better then if he does it somewhere else and then you lick it off because i personally have found once it hits fresh air it does not taste too nice at all.

Just remember it needs to be safe sex though.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, Nevalearn Australia +, writes (7 July 2007):

What about STD's, unprotected sex isn't a subject to be overlooked. As for the taste, personally I do it with the lights off becuase I gag. Happy tasting.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007):

If you don't think you're ready for oral then for sure you probably wouldn't be ready for licking it off. I suppose it's on in how you look at it. I've read that it can taste salty or most the time it has no taste or barely any taste at all. I also heard that the flavored condoms are great and that way you don't have to taste it.

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A female reader, Goth Mo +, writes (7 July 2007):

Kay, Kay is right... don't do anything that you don't want to do... even if he wants you to! Personally I don't mind the taste of sperm, but some girls do, and it depends on the guy. I've heard that if he drinks pineapple juice it tastes better but the main thing about this sort of thing is trust. If you can't trust him enough to tell him what you're feeling and if he can't wait and respect your feelings then you're doing this for the wrong reasons.

When I was first with my boyfriend and I gave hima hand job he held the end of his penis when he came, and then went to the toilet, maybe that'll work. Just go slow and enjoy the intimacy... as that is what it's supposed to be about

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A female reader, burningbridges Canada +, writes (7 July 2007):

It's bitter, but not 'oh my god ew!'. Taste changes from guy to guy, and of course it's connected loosely to what he ate.

If you can manage a brussel sprout you can handle his taste.

The only caveat is that sex without protection is a high-risk activity, and that includes oral.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007):

DO NOT LICK IT OFF FOR HIM! its bad enough giving oral sexing and getting jizz all up in ur mouth but do not jerk him off and let him cum soemwhere for you to lick off unless you like it dirty.

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