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female
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26-29,
*eekn'boo
writes:So my boyfriend and I recently began talking as friends after we took a break from each other. During our relationship we did have sex and I lost my virginity to him. He knew that I was a virgin and did not pressure me to do anything but I did so because I felt ready. So while we were discussing why we broke up he asked if he was really my first. I said of course he was and he said okay.Why did he ask? What did he want to imply?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (2 October 2015):
 I agree with SVC
Some people (both male and female) have some pretty set notions of what they "think" happens the first time a female virgin has sex - pain, blood, shyness, scared... etc.
So my guess us that your BF didn't really believe you were a virgin - maybe because you didn't fit the "standard virgin" mold in his head.
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 October 2015):
 if you want to know why he asked.. ask him.
IMO the question was calling you a liar.
He implied he does not believe you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2015): Maybe he heard something ? Or you seemed a little to experienced for him. If he doubts you move on you gave him your innocence how dare he question that
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