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writes:me and my boyfriend havent been together very long but i love him, but recently he really annoys me. like near enough everything he does. he practically lives with me and my family. i think we might be spending too much time together, the real time i get to myself is mainly when im at college.but i miss him so much too the extent i want to cry when im at home away from him. i want this relationship to work so much, but i dont ever want to be away from him.i dont know what too doplease helpthanksx Reply to this Question
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reader, Ted-ster  +, writes (7 March 2009):
Sounds like you're ready for marriage:) Seriously, tell the guy to give it a rest, and stop suffocating you. Tell him you love him, but you need more space. If you don;t want to be bluynt, start doing other things without him- go to the mall, movies with friends, library. TYou can solve this problem easily.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (5 March 2009):
 I think you are right here, you sound like you are spending too much time together. If it is only the early stages of the relationship you shoulnt be seeing each other too much otherwise you will start to get on each other's nerves.
I understand its not nice to miss someone that much but how about turning that into the "excited" feeling you get when you know you are going to see someone the next day etc. That feeling should be there in the early part of a relationship, so spending time apart is the only way you will feel excited to see him again!
Try only seeing him 1 or 2 nights during the week, and then see him at the weekend. This way, you will have time to spend with friends and time to study, which will make your life better. You will then have more to talk about with your boyfriend on the nights you do see each other instead of getting bored or annoyed with each other.
Give it a try and see how it works for you! I hope this helps!
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