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He acts like he is not interested, but his eyes say something different.

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Question - (16 November 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2009)
A age 41-50, * writes:

How can I make him confess instead of using his boddy language although he knows that I am 9 yr elder than him.I know that he loves me too much but he avoids me and he tries to show to public that he even doesn't see me.He looks at me secretly and when he know that I notice his secret reaction he leave this place although sometimes he look at me wll the eyes full of love, questions and blame.What do you think is the source of his behavior? Is it love or he is just acting on me ?Please help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009):

HIS ACTIONS IS ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN HIS EYES OR HIS WORDS. YOU WILL KNOW A "TREE BY IT'S FRUIT." REMEMBER THAT PLEASE.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for all of you .I really appreciate your advice.To be honest you are rigt,but it is hard when you look around you see him following your steps so as to know what are you doing and when you see him in front of you he acts as if he doesn't see you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009):

BY golly if you are interested in him and you think he is interested in you then by all means give him the signals that it is ok to go after you. Smile at him. Touch his hand in conversation. Tell him you want to meet him for coffee, etc. Tell him you are interested in him.

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A female reader, Lola1 Canada +, writes (16 November 2009):

Lola1 agony auntIf a man SAYS he isn't interested, and acts like he isn't interested, it is safest to presume he isn't. Be careful you are not reading something you WANT to see in his eyes.

Why are you so convinced he loves you? Is it just what you "see in his eyes"?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009):

some men are just too insecure to show that they care about some one. they are so afraid to get hurt, that they hurt every one around.

you see it a lot when they are boys, and they hit or pick on the girl they have a crush on, you know. the problem is that some boys never grow up. They keep being needy, and want all attention and lack empathy!

i dont know if this is what happen to this guy, but trust me, it is so tiring to have a relationship with these kinds of men, cause they are soooooooooo complicated....

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