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Have we broken up or are we still in a relationship? Should I ask him what is going on?

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Question - (23 February 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2012)
A female India age 36-40, * gal writes:

My boyfriend and I had always arguments and he always ended up calling me names. But I always tolerated but recently I am so intolerant to his behavior so I said I want to break up with him. He said he is ready too. But after a while he called me and said he couldn't imagine his life without me. He said he wants to stay with me forever and never fight again. I always used to tell him that even if he wants to leave me I won't ever think about leaving him and he thinks that I've broken my promise. He used to tell me that he wants break up whenever we fight but I never agreed but this time we are completely different. I wanted break up and he didn't.

After a day I called him but he sounded really sad and was talking to me in a low voice. I asked if he didn't want to talk to me he didn't answer so I hung up. I think he is ignoring me or really hurt by me.

What should I do? Should I apologize him or talk to him what is going on?

What should I think we broke up or still in relationship?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (23 February 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntHe always called you names... and you took it... that's not loving behavior on his part

consider yourselves broken up and move on find a man that treats you properly.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2012):

this boyfriend of yours was treating you improperly.. now that you stood upto him.. he realizes how stupid he was... and that you are better than him.. and yes he thinks you have broken up with him.

I think you should not call him and forget him.. a guy who loves you won't treat you badly...

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