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writes:I've been hooking up with a guy from work for a little over a month now. We said we just wanted to be friends but we both started to develop feelings. Last Friday we were together and he was telling me how he likes me and wants to see me more. Suddenly at work this week he hasn't really talked to me all that much. I texted him last night and he never answered. I'm kinda bummed obviously but also confused too. Do you think he might of backed off cause his feelings or could it be something else? And any advice on if I should say or do anything or just leave it alone for now? Thanks in advance!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (11 August 2012):
 So slow down and stop having "hook ups" with him til you two sort it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2012): well what was your reaction when he told you he liked you? he might feel embarrassed or nervous around you now... especially if you don't feel the same way. if you really like him, the balls in your court. you should officially ask him out if you want to take the next step
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (10 August 2012):
 You don't know what's going on with your coworker, and you have only JUST started going out with him for the past month.
He could be busy and preoccupied with work. You sent him a text last night and he hasn't responded by this morning. That's NOTHING.
You'd do well to leave things alone at present and see what happens. Most likely you'll run into him at work sooner or later and all this will resolve itself quite naturally.
Don't pursue him any further at this point (you already sent the text). If you don't hear anything or see him for another couple weeks you can either try contacting him again (a simple "Hi, how are you" sort of brief message)
or, just let the whole thing drop.
Good luck!
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