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Have any of you liked your friends man?

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Question - (18 February 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Have any of you liked a guy that your friends with for like afew months and not been able to stop thinking about him and when your with him always looking at him, but then when your on your own and you start to think what it would be like to be with this guy you start to wonder if you could do it and get scared? BEcause this is what i'm like and i've always wanted to be with him but now i'm not sure. What does this mean?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

not sure what it means for you but i went through that situation in middle school i thought she was cute yeah but didnt exactly fall in love with her till about three months later its been over three years and i still cant stop thinking about her.so if i were you (as long as your not in any relationship)i would make your move good luck

-michael

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A female reader, kellyO United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2008):

kellyO agony auntHi there,

Yes i did, A long time ago when i was i college i was attracted to a guy who was my senior in school. We sort of met through a friend at a party and i discovered later on he had a girlfriend. He introduced me to her and we became very close. The feelings died after sometime when i realised how special she was and how i would do nothing to hurt her. Till this day she remains my best friend and i never told him how i felt back then. I am glad because now i have found the man of my dreams.

Dont give up searching, you will find your own and when u do everything will be so right and his heart will only belong to you.

Lots of hugs

Kelly

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

hang on a minute i wrote this and i said nothing about liking my friends man! sorry i appreciate your advice but it just shows poeple go by what the titles say and not the question im on about liking a guy who i'm friends with! Sorry if it has been worded abit wrong but reading it back now i find nowhere that it says my friends man

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

It happened to me when i was about 16. My best friend was with a lovely bloke and mine was ok, but i resisted because she was my friend and friends are there forever but blokes can come and go. Dont go there, if you have to day dream then enjoy that part of it, but dont take it any further.

take care

x

x

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A female reader, speedcat United States +, writes (18 February 2008):

Dont go there your friend should mean more to you than that. Its ok to be attracted to another but dont cross that line when it comes to your friends it just dont seem right especially if shes a good friend. I know two cousins who dated the same guy one after another and needless to say they havent spoken since, these are cousins!! Beware.

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