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writes: I've recently moved schools, and I've been at my new one for a week over 1 term and I hate it! I now go to a selective school and they're all soo snooty and I don't really fit in. All I want is to go back to my old school but my father won't let me. It's because I had a crush on a teacher and well we were really close and he is worried about it. He says he wants what's best for me, but he doesn't seems to care about my happiness. He says that he wants me to make my own decisions but he won't let me return to my old school. I don't know how to get through to him; he just won't listen and now I'm feeling like dropping out. He says I'm turning out just like my aunty, who did that and funnily enough she was forced to move schools and no one would listen. How can I convince my dad it's not because of the teacher and I have no feelings for him anymore?
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reader, lillaum  +, writes (15 October 2005):
 Hi there,Whatever you do don't drop out of school!!! I had to leave school due to family difficulties and it is mighty hard to get any where in life without those piece's of paper that say you went to school, trust me. It is hard to fit in to a new school, but give it a chance. When you have left school and have made a life for yourself you will realise just how small a part of your life this part of school really is. It's really important but it is for only a little while. Try and speak to your Dad again. Tell him about your feelings. Try not to get too upset when you talk to him though, it's not that he doesn't care if your upset, but he will realise you thought about this calmly. If he doesn't change his mind then try and make the best of what you have. It WILL pay off i promise.Good LuckLillaum
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