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writes: I've been with my partner for 5 years now and since he cheated on me we just do not get on. We seem to clash. We have a 3 year old son together. I just don't know what to do anymore. He says it's always me biting his head off over silly things, but most of the time I don't know I'm doing it. This has got to stop but it's easier said than done. Please help me. I don't no what to dooo anymore. We are going to end up splitting otherwise. Thanksx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2005): Everyone deserves a second chance..just dont be silly to give more than that..if you want to be with him and you choose to give him a second chance then you need to move on from this..you cant keep throwing it back at him or letting it effect your relationship..youve got to work out whether being with him after him cheating is what you want because if it isnt dont make things any harder be staying in this relationship.
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reader, lillaum  +, writes (15 October 2005):
 Hi there!
When someone has betrayed your trust it takes a lot of work from both partners to regain and restore the trust that was there before. If you have agreed to trust him and forgive him then he will expect you to let the past become the past. It sounds like you just can't move on. To move on we need to understand why things happend. You, quite rightly so, also want to be reassured that it wont happen again. Agree to talk about what happend. so that you dont get too lost in the emotions perhaps you could write down what you want to ask, and how you are feeling. Your obviously concerend about the affect this is having on your son. Try not to have full blown arguments in front of him. perhaps ask him to play in his room while mummy and daddy have a little talk. If you have someone who could look after the little one when you sit down to talk about what happend all the better. take one step at a time.
Good luck
Lillaum
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