A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidMy bf (or ex) of 3 years was very abusive lately (verbally), we had a fight, actually to be precise he called me names and stormed out of my apartment.He said he's getting bored with me, i tried hard to make myself interesting to him, chnaged the ways i dress, had a make over, took some courses in uni, got out more with my friends, made myself busy, he got interested in me again and we had some good time. After a month or so he became abusive again.Its been 4 days, he hasnt called me or texted me. I called him once in this 4 days, he didnt picked up and didnt return my call either.Has he broke up with me without actually telling me? He owes me money, What should i do now. Please help me.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 May 2013):
 NEVER change yourself for someone else... only change for you... that's rule one...
fights are one thing, being abusive is a different issue... calling names is abusive.
IF he's bored with you, well then it's time to leave.
I would personally kiss the money goodbye and not try to contact him. He'll be back when he's horny. Do not give him sex... and see where it goes... but it does not sound like it's a good relationship and he sounds rather immature.
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reader, peanut_gallery +, writes (7 May 2013):
Yes, chances are he dumped you but that's not really the point. It really doesn't sound like you ever had a very solid relationship.
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reader, lilmishap  +, writes (7 May 2013):
hope to god he has. if nothing you do makes him happy then he is an unhappy person. Misery loves company. when you leave him and look back you WILL feel ashamed of Your behaviour. No man should have a woman jumping through hoops to try and achieve his impossible to meet peace of mind. the next girl will feel just as hurt and worthless as you. you know what u have to do. get rid. Itll hurt but everything that is right usually comes with hurt and hard graft. But do kick off about the money, pref with a 3rd party present.
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