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Harmless flirting with my younger brother's mate is OK, isn't it?

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Question - (11 July 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

This is odd, but my younger brother is 17, and I'm 22. He has a friend his age that I just have a innocent crush on. I basically want to know if that's weird.

Don't worry; I won't be acting on it. I mean he's just a kid still, but I just get along with him and think he's funny... I don't want to date him or anything, but we just flirt a little and it's fun.

Is this wrong if I don't take it further?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006):

ive had a simialr experience, it started off as harmless flirting, and theni started 2 like him more and more, I tried to kool it 4 a bit and then he admitted he like me, wee still alwayz flirt but i would never take it futher, i think you should hang about with guys your own age and if you still like him tell him how u feel and c how it go's from there. good luck X kisses n hugz X

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2006):

Well, I had a boyfriend that confessed to me that he had an "Aunt" that would tease him about how good looking he was. He knew it was harmless.

I think having a crush is normal. I have had crushes on friends of varying ages throught out my life and yet when it came down to it; it was not romantic by any means. I would think, could I kiss this person? And it was more often than not.

However, being you are 22 and he is 17...I'd cool it a bit.

Hardly any young man is mature enough by that age to understand intamacies.

I'd start hanging with adult males if your innocent crush turns to something not so innocent.

Self restraint is underated these days. *wink*

*hugs*

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