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writes:just had an abortion not long ago,im so depressed an upset,i wanted to keep it but ended up having an abortion bcus i was ona drip in hospital with SEVERE sickness and nausea,couldnt keep fluids or food in my systm,i have a 3year old boy,and i was very very ill,i tryed my hardest to cope,but i couldnt,i couldnt even see properly,my vision was just blurr,would you do the same in my situation??or would you go through with the illness,i was 7weeks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): I agree with the other answer you received,as an ex maternity nurse it sounds to me as though you could have been suffering from Toxemia of pregnancy which is dangerous to the mum and unborn child,it is natural to have feelings of guilt after an abortion,but I am sure if there was any other way your doctors would have suggested it,try and be strong for the lovely child you have,but if it is too hard,please consider have some counselling which can help.Allow yourself to grieve it is natural.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (6 August 2010):
 i agree with the other lady. you did nothing wrong you actually saved a child of missery you may have had resentful feelings towards it if 9 months were like that you may of died trying to keep it and left your other child motherless you seriously did the right thing. dont feel depressed hunnie you have a beautiful child and your alive and healthy! god bless
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reader, person12345  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 If you were that sick from just 7 weeks of pregnancy, do you really think you could have tolerated 9 months? You would have been miserable and more than likely you would have made yourself so sick that you would have affected the fetus. You did the right thing for you. There's nothing morally wrong with an abortion. You're just removing tissue, not a baby. You needed to do this for your own health. That's so much more important.
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