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writes: ok this girl and me used to live in india but we had only met each other 1 time, at like when we were 7. But our parents were very good friends and they knew each other for 20 years. so five years ago we came to america and i met her. As they say i fell in love with her at the first sight. we went to school together for 2 years but i never talked to her in the school because of my language problems, didn't wanted myself to get disgraced by other people in front of her . However we did meet with each other when she came to my house or i went to hers. i had so much feelings for her but she never had none for me. At that time i didn't knew how to flirt with a girl which was a big minus point for me. i had done many things for her and one of them was i didn't eat my lunch in school for 2 months because i thought if i do this than god will bring her into my life. i also drew cards for her and did many more things. so everything went that way until 2 months ago i asked her for her email address. Now we are in high school and before we never used to talk privately but now we do it when we chat every other day and also we have become friends. However there's a big problem: she will go back to india in one and a half years and i will stay here. so i have only one and half years to bring our relationship to a certain point where she loves me. Another thing is that i can't drive because of my personal problems so i can't even take her out. However she is kind of a girl who becomes shy when you talk to her about her future plans or love. also she has hid about our talking on the internet to her parents and she has made me promise that i will tell nothing about this to anybody and the reason that she gives is that she is a girl. so guys please help me and tell me how should i get close to her heart and create love between us. Please......
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reader, shania  +, writes (7 December 2005):
 I get the impression that she just sees you as a dear friend.You are obviously smitten with her but she is so out of reach.You cannot make someone fall in love with you and what makes me suspicious is that when you talk about love and the future you want with her she goes all shy and quiet.She hasnt given you any signs that she is interested in you,and you have been the one to do all the chasing.Okay,lets give her the benefit of the doubt,you say you have about a year and a half to do something about it,well why dont you just come out and ask her,say that you care about her a lot and that you would like to take it further,you might think,oh know i cant say that,but dont you think you have waited enough? You sound like a very caring person and if she decides that she only wants to be your friend then you will have to accept that.Good luck.
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