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anonymous
writes:A question for the guys.... When you want oral sex, what exactly does that mean? Until you ejaculate? Instead of intercourse? To get you hard and then intercourse? Does it help to get hard again if you are in the middle of intercourse and you start to go soft? Does it vary? I am just wondering....
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2011): As a m2f transgendered female who does not have the same equipment downstairs as you do I think that my answer to your question may be unique given that my primary way of sexually satisfying men is by giving them oral sex. Men absolutely love to receive oral sex and lots of it. If given a choice of oral or vaginal sex I think 9 out of 10 will choose to get oral even if it means no vaginal to follow. One of the main reasons men pay prostitutes (I am not one) is for oral sex. Could be that their wives or girlfriends won't do it or are no good at it. Yes, this means until they ejaculate, preferably in the mouth of the person giving the bj. I am not saying guys will not then have intercourse after oral but if the oral ends in ejaculation which it should usually there will be a cigarette break in between. Also if a guy goes soft during sex of any kind his mind must be somewhere else or he is impotent. Bottom line, you have to decide for yourself if giving your man oral sex works for you. Believe me if you are not really into it and do it half ass he will know and it won't work. Better to be honest with him and yourself if you are not comfortable doing it. As for myself I totally enjoy pleasing men orally.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (7 December 2011):
 Any/All of the above, at various times......
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2011): As part of foreplay, or instead of intercourse after a pretty full on weekend when we're both too sore ;)
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (7 December 2011):
 my wife likes to perform it on me at different times and not all of the time, just when we both are in the mood for her to give me oral sex. sometimes i ejaculate in her mouth and she swallows , sometimes she performs on me before we have intercourse, and sometimes its good for excitement of getting me harder. so yes it varies with us. but its good either way i get it ,and she enjoys it also. no complaints .
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 December 2011):
 not a guy but given oral to many...
can I say ALL OF THE ABOVE????
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 December 2011):
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