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Guys, what do you like in a girl?

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Question - (23 January 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 24 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *itty_3 writes:

Guys, what do you like in a girl? I'm not going to try to change myself or anything, but what specific personality and physical traits do you, personally, find attractive?

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (24 January 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntThis is difficult, because it depends on the girl what I like in a girl.

For instance, something as simple as length of hair. If I had to say it in general I either prefer it long (way past the shoulder) or short (boyish) but not in between. But what really matters is that it fits HER.

Same with build, I like both girlish and boyish. A tomboy is FINE (Well I would have to say that or sleep on the couch) but so is a girly girl. It depends on what fits her.

But if you want something that I really like in a woman, then it is a face that moves. If she smiles it has to involve all the muscles and no girl that worries that might cause wrinkles will ever steal my hearth. I want a girl who face you can read more easily then a puppy! Since women expect me to read them, they better be in large print. Everything else doesn't really matter that much I think after all.

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A female reader, kitty_3 United States +, writes (24 January 2009):

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kitty_3 agony aunttrust me, i'm not one of those hair-straightening primmers.

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A male reader, uslessnesss Canada +, writes (24 January 2009):

uslessnesss agony auntJust be a woman. And you'll attract men. There are to many creature's out there that call them selves women and are actually preditors. I for one am sick of them.

And do you really just want to attract any man, and lots of them. All the primming, puffing and working out will only get you someone shallow. And since you don't want to change anything about yourself. It sounds to me like you need a man who wants to understand you. That is not something you can find when you look your best. The special man is the one who finds you when your in your darkest hour.

I for one am willing to work with you if you really want to try to talk with someone. Feel free to add me to your list of friends and we can talk. I don't know anything about you, but I'm willing to help you, and maybe you can help me at the same time. Maybe I'll chat with you later. Hope you have a wonderful day.

Lee

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009):

Oh, then eyes as I said before, face is also important.

I can't stand fake breasts, natural all the way no matter what shape or size they are. I don't understand the desire some women have to look like the "plastic barbie doll" image of beauty. Real women are really beautiful.

I tend to gravitate to short, curvy women.

Long hair, any colour.

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A female reader, kitty_3 United States +, writes (23 January 2009):

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kitty_3 agony auntI just want to know what YOU like because, yes, everyone IS different.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009):

We all like different things in women. Every guy has his preferences.

It doesn't matter what a woman looks like there will always be men that fancy her.

I personally love eyes, I am intrigued by them. By far the most beautiful part of a woman for me.

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (23 January 2009):

PeterPan agony auntThis is going to be a wide-open discussion... for me? long dark hair and tall (nearly anything over 5'6"), slim figure...

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