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Guys: About breasts, do you like them small or large, real or fake?

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Question - (19 September 2007) 17 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2010)
A female Malaysia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hello,

i notice that my boyfriend eyes other girls clevage.i feel that my breast is small but he says mine is just the right size. so i was wondering if guys prefer large breasts or dont mind small ones.how about fake ones?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010):

For me its the big breast that attracts me and other males. Your friend is really a good guy. He wants to make you happy

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010):

Lol well I'm female but just wanted to share an answer with you! I have 34D boobs which are "fake" I love them, I feel it makes my low cut shirts and dresses look better, but I feel like my fiance liked them better a size 34B before I had them enhanced... he claims either way doesn't matter! But I see him occasionly looking at small breasted girls A LOT, which makes me feel bad, but oh well I love my body and so should you... as long as you are fine with ur body then it shouldn't make a difference.. BTW I'm attracted to both! Hope this helps

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A female reader, jeeva India +, writes (25 August 2010):

Naturally girls feel happy when our boyfriend does it so. It seems to be exposure of love to us. breasts makes girls more beautiful which attracts boys........... Let your boyfriend be a baby to you for a while... boys feel better and satisfied when it is bigger.....Be cool...

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A male reader, siquan United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2010):

Fake breasts are a rip off, they also feel hard and not soft like real breasts. O_O small breasts also make you look younger ,big breasts are going to sag once you get older...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009):

I won't lie, i'm a guy and I'm absolutely boob obsessed, i have a girlfriend and try not to stare at other girls cleavage but its just impossible, it is simply nature for men to be attracted to breasts. When it comes to size i'm not really bothered, I dont want anything more than a D tho

My girlfriends breasts are a B and they are just perfect, enough to grab hold of and enough to look at. To be honest as long as your guy gets to make contact with your breast i doubt he'll be bothered by the size.

xxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009):

never fake, some don't always matter, just if they look good, and perky, preferablye Large A cup or more, but not toooo big,

like DDD

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A male reader, mister.m Netherlands +, writes (7 July 2009):

mister.m agony auntFor me, size is irrelevant, really. Shape and symmetry is way more appealing.

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A male reader, PLewis Bahamas +, writes (16 June 2008):

well most guys prefer large breasts, the larger the better. For me i dont like them 2 large but medium size. i dont like when theyre almost flat or i could hardly hold them in my hands, but at the same time i dont like them extra large.

my ex had some enormous boobs and it didn't look so attractive especially when she was on her knees in the doggy style position and there were these 2 boulders hangind almost touching the ground.

so once again i prefer them meduim or large but not 2 large and i like perky nipples.

As for real or fake boobs - there's no thinking about it. i hate girls who have fake breasts. it will make me feel odd sucking on them. i rather a gril with boobs that are 2 small and real then big ones that are fake.

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A male reader, 17Irish17 United States +, writes (9 March 2008):

I never saw a boob I didnt like:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks a lot for all the responses. Now i understand this thing about boobs and guys better. Some of the replies even made me laugh. Thanks ya! =)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007):

Men will look at boobs no matter what the size. It is a man thing, sorry if that gets on your nerves but it is a fact of life! I bet he does love yours but they all have to look! I know, it gets on my nerves at times, but we girls just have to laugh it off and have a good look at a nice pert bum on a bloke the next time we catch our bloke looking at the boobs.

take care and dont get too hung up on this one.

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007):

Guys like breasts because they are what women feed their children with, or at least in cave man days that is how all babies were fed..it is a sign of fertility & wether men know it or not, that is why they love boobs. I don't think it really matters wether they're huge or not, they love em. It is just that the huge ones are more noticeable & therefore men are more apt to look at them..but if their girlfriend has small boobs, I am sure they love them just the same..I have E cups, and I personally wish mine were smaller, like a D would be nice. I can't speak for all men, but most of my ex's hated fake boobs but that could just be because I don't like the kind of men who would want a fake plastic surgery type of woman.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007):

I'm a girl, but after having a rather drunken conversation with some of my male friends (and not one of them can remember this conversation ever taking place) I realised that it is male instinct to look at breasts, as they're a sign of fertility, but that's not to say that guys would necesarily want a girlfriend with enormous breasts. Women don't tend to do that, we would rather look at guys and actually want a boyfriend that looks like that, but guys fantasise about different things.

That being said, everyone's different. One of my friends said, after too many drinks to count, that his ideal girlfriend would have AA cups!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007):

It's a 'man thing'.

I've yet to meet any woman who is totally satisfied with her body, or a man who wouldn't mind an extra inch on his todger and a six-pack to go with it. To the opposite sex, it makes little difference either way!

I've yet to meet any heterosexual man that doesn't look at boobs - especially if the target of his stare is displaying an ample cleavage. It's more often than not a case of wondering what the hidden nipples look like - are they pale or dark brown, large or small, do they point down, straight ahead or upwards? Does she really need a bra? Guess the cup size? Put plainly, male curiosity coupled with a vivid imagination.

As for size, personally speaking, it doesn't matter a jot. All boobs are nice boobs unless they get TOO big, in which case they can be a definite turn-off, but for some women, having enormous boobs is an ambition to be fulfilled which is why plastic surgeons are getting richer by the minute. Little do they realise that most men, me included, mock them behind their backs! All boobs are different, and they're all lovely to my eyes.

Oh - almost forgot - forget handsful, anything more than a MOUTHFUL is wasted!

Phil

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (19 September 2007):

Sandman agony auntWhen it comes to loving the woman you're with, it doesn't matter how large or small her breasts are, she's perfect just the way she is.

However, just like women look at men with big bulging muscles and ripped abs - when clearly most men look NOTHING like that - men like to look at shapely women too. It's not that it's what we want - but it's appealing to the eyes. It looks good. A woman wouldn't care a bit if her skinny out of shape bf joined a gym and got better physique. Just like a man wouldn't mind a bit if his woman lost a few pounds and gained a better physique. But if they don't do it, they're still loved just the same.

I particularly would not want my woman to have fake breasts. Just my opinion.

hope this helps.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007):

it really depends on the guy. There are levels of if he's a leg man, a butt man, a boob man or a lips man. And then for whichever he is, there's a level of how much that matters. Every guy is different, there are men that feel they need at least some sort of bump. I personally never was a boob man and flat chested women with big bums were up my alley, but it's just natural for us to glance here and there. I know other friends that even prefer smaller boobs, actually a lot of guys. It's all about what you have and what's good, focus on the shape, or focus on another part of your body. If he doesn't care why should you. A lot of people are put off by surgery but like I said, every guy is different, some guys would want surgery. He might look at boobs, but maybe he's thinking in his mind, "wow those are bigger than i'd want for me"

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007):

All men love boobs. It doesn't matter about the size,or who they are on - they will still look.

Its nothing to be concerned about and anyway, more than a handfuls a waste ey?

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