How seriously should I take this comment that he loves me?
Q. What do you think it means if a guy's female friend starts mentioning he loves you in a half joking sort of way? This girl is nice, mature and 28 years old, so it's not like she's saying haha, you so love her! In a teenager sort of way. Or like his ...
A. 8 July 2009: Play along and enjoy the game of seduction. Things will work out.... (read in full...)
I find my 19 year old step son attractive!
Q. Hi. I'm a 32 year old woman. i recently found myself attracted to my 19 year old stepson, and i am seriously trying to fight these feelings. i would never pursue him or make any moves, because i think it's wrong, and i love his dad too much, but i ...
A. 8 July 2009: Attraction isn't a choice. But its wise to forget about it. Begin a relationship with someone else so you'll be distracted.... (read in full...)
Is it normal that sex still hurts?
Q. I am 16 and my boyfriend and i just decided to have sex...and he has fingered me before and it feels good at first then like after 20ish min it stops feeling good and i dont like the feeling at all...i have a high pain tollerance and it still ...
A. 8 July 2009: Use lots of foreplay + additional lubrication if needed. Sounds like you're not getting wet enough.... (read in full...)
Does this make me a coward?
Q. hey everyone, this is about a problem i have that happens at random times of the week usually. somedays I get depressed like in a instant for no reason and I hate when people put me down cuz i act as if it doesnt affect me at all but deep down it ...
A. 8 July 2009: Try some hard style martial arts, like Muay Thai. It brings you great discipline, confidence and self-control. It changed my life.... (read in full...)
When a guy is touching a girl, what should she do?
Q. When a guy is feeling up a girl, what should the girl be doing? Something for the guy? Or just enjoy? Etc...
A. 8 July 2009: Just look him in the eyes. Big turn on.... (read in full...)
He makes me hate myself. I don't know what love is anymore!
Q. My boyfriend say things to me and turn me against myself. I am good person, I know it. Last night I try to speak with him and tell him that I hate me because of him and was crying and he told me to be quiet and stop making a show. I don't know w...
A. 8 July 2009: Leave, and surprisingly pleasant things may happen.... (read in full...)
We're not as close as we used to be...help! I don't want to lose the love of my life!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, I love him to pieces, I don't think hes cheating or anything, its just that we're not as close as we were a few months ago. We don't talk as much and he's been a bit snappy, but every time I ask ...
A. 8 July 2009: Love comes from two sides.... (read in full...)
She has curves but bikini isn't appealing?
Q. What do guys think when a girl is wearing a bikini and it isn't very flattering, but the girl has killer curves? (so for example, she has big thighs too)...
A. 8 July 2009: I assume you're asking this question because you're a little insecure about how others perceive you in a bikini. Well, if you feel sexy and confident yourself, you will definitely come off as sexy to others! And personally, I like curves.... (read in full...)
How can I totally forget what happened that night?
Q. long sorry.... please help! im gay and my good freind, probably my best freind, is straight,shes knows im gay and is 100 and cool with it and isnt threatened at all. A good freind. she has had a lot of pain in her life and was treated very...
A. 8 July 2009: Well, in my experience girls can get touchy with their female friends. So yeah, it's nothing absurd really. I think you're making too big of an issue here. I understand you value your friendship. So it would be wise to tell her about this encounter ... (read in full...)
44 year old virgin and not sure what to do
Q. I think that to be honest I may have more than one question in this subject but my main one is how to make love. I am a 44 yr old virgin and a girl of 28 (woman) has come into my life it was love on first sight sort of thing. But im very inexperi...
A. 8 July 2009: Get the whole virgin thing out of your head and adore her. The rest will come naturally. Even a fly knows how to reproduce, so don't worry ;)... (read in full...)
Do men really only want women with big breasts?
Q. Do men really only want women with big breasts - my breasts are no bigger than Kate Moss's - I'm naturally small, but worry men will be disappointed when I get undressed !...
A. 7 July 2009: Breasts don't really spark my interest. A nice curvy ass is much more attractive to me ;)
Alot of my friends say they like ass over tits.... (read in full...)
Guys: About breasts, do you like them small or large, real or fake?
Q. hello, i notice that my boyfriend eyes other girls clevage.i feel that my breast is small but he says mine is just the right size. so i was wondering if guys prefer large breasts or dont mind small ones.how about fake ones?...
A. 7 July 2009: For me, size is irrelevant, really. Shape and symmetry is way more appealing.... (read in full...)
Do men talk to their friends about women they like/are interested in?
Q. Do men talk to their friends about women they like or are interested in? I was seeing this guy for a little bit a few months ago and we just kind of started talking again. After going out, he took me to his place since he had just moved and wanted ...
A. 7 July 2009: Yep, guys talk about that.... (read in full...)
I lost my voice. How do I get it back?
Q. I lost my voice its been gone for a few days .. I haven't ate or drank anything weird or have strained my vocal cords .. My voice is just gone how do I get it back.. I need a few tips an tricks to help it come back...
A. 7 July 2009: Just slow things down and rest. If your voice doesn't recover within a week, consult your doctor.... (read in full...)
I've been to the doctor, but do I have an STD or not?!
Q. I thought I had a genital wart about two months ago, I went to my doctor and she said yes it was one and to go to a Gynecologist. I made the gyno appointment and had to wait a month to get in. In that time the suspected wart dissapeared. The gyno ...
A. 7 July 2009: It's probably nothing worse. Sounds like a standard HPV reinfection, that's causing the genital warts.
Keep track of the "white lump". If it grows any larger or changes shape, consult your doctor!... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and he's in his 40's but I have really strong feelings for him...
Q. Heyyah Everyone,, I need help i have started ti feel really strong for some 1 in there 40s since i have been talking to him i cant get him of my mind and i find him so amazing id love to just be with him. although he lives quite far away id love...
A. 7 July 2009: Try to forget him, really.
Like roxy01 said, he's probably after sex. If not, your strong feelings towards a man in his 40's won't do any good for you. You should hangout with people from your own age! Trust me on that one.... (read in full...)
I don't like giving oral sex, he asks for it every day!
Q. my boyfriend asks for oral sex EVERYDAY!!! I for one am not that into it. if there were a better term id say i hate and choose not to do so, i do it enough maybe every four days or so but im gettin tired and he wants me to do it until he cums, i ...
A. 7 July 2009: about "YOU SET THE RULES AND US MEN WILL PLAY BY THEM". I fully disagree! A man playing by a woman's rule is considered weak. This may sound cruel but it's the hard truth. What I suggest is that you discuss this issue with your partner. Tell ... (read in full...)
We're still together after he hurt me a lot, but I'm finding it tough. Can the damage ever be reversed?
Q. My boyfriend and I went through a very tough few months where he was very verbally abusive. We have made it through those times and are moving forward, I am doing so with caution. However, I can not shake the empty feeling that I have inside. ...
A. 7 July 2009: Being open and direct is key. Discuss your problems with him and say how you feel.You can't just hide your pain and move on like nothing happended, it tears you apart.
When he's not receptive to your emotions, it's best to leave him.... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my weight?
Q. i have one question. i am 5"0 and i weigh about 79 my family and friends are worryed bout me but i don't make myself thow up i eat normaly i am a vegatarian so idk if this is bad. any help?...
A. 7 July 2009: When you're unsure yourself, I suggest you visit your doctor to analyze your health. Remember it's not a big issue to consult a doctor about your worries, they are happy to help and glad you came. Also when it's nothing serious, you and your family ... (read in full...)
She makes plans with other guys and then lies to me about it!
Q. i Hve been in a relationship with my gf for about 4 years. The main issue in the relationship is trust. Specifically about other men. My gf has this tendency to make plan to meet with guys for beer or conversation, but oftentimes lies to me about ...
A. 7 July 2009: Be a man and tell her you're not tolerating this kind of behavior (cheating). Don't freak out. Just give her the option to be in a relationship by YOUR rules (no cheating, obviously) or she can leave. It's that simple. You gotta take control, the ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of being hurt and afraid to get involved again!
Q. So the deal is Im sick of being constantly hurt by guys and now Im too scared to get involved with anyone because I feel like Im just setting myself up to be hurt again. Sure most of the time with them is great but when things go wrong/end it feels ...
A. 7 July 2009: Be hard to get.
By doing this, you will filter out the wussies only looking for sex. See how much effort the guy is putting into you and decide if he's worth it to have a relationship with you. Qualify him!... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date your best friends brother?
Q. Hi, needing some advice. Nothing has happened yet but I want to get some advice before it does so that maybe I have a better idea of what I'm doing. A few months ago my best friend went away abroad for a year - shes studying abroad. We're r...
A. 7 July 2009: Be honest and follow your heart. Yes, you can date him.
If you do really like him, and been dating with him, never try to keep this a secret from your best friend. She may feel you're sneeky. Tell her you like him, and ask how she thinks of it.
... (read in full...)
What do guys think about petite women?
Q. I was wondering what men REALLY think about women who are petite. I wanted to ask this question because I heard someone say that short women are not sexy enough like taller women, and that guys rather be with women who are taller. I am 5 feet tal...
A. 6 July 2009: You should be proud on your small stature. I personaly prefer petite women. They are incredibly cute! In fact, I get turned off by women who are tall, despite the fact that I myself am over 6'2" tall. All of my GF's were AT LEAST one head shorter ... (read in full...)
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