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writes:all im asking is who is in the wrong?and if it happend to you, would you do the same?if not, then what would you do differently?me and my girlfriend was on the front of my house speaking with 2 friends when 2 boys from 2 houses away was stairing at my girlfriend, she asked "why are you keep looking at me?" and 1 of the boys replied "shut up you slag". the 1 that called my girlfriend a slag come up to her in the face, pushed her aside, then started mouthing off at me.he swung his hand to punch me and hit me in the left eye, then he ripped my top from pulling me towards him.so i hit him in his eye, cut it slightly because of the power of it, then he grabbed me by the neck, pushed me towards my friends mums car window and tried to put my head through the window, so i pulled myself closer to not hit the glass, hit him 2 and pushed him to his side of the path of where he lives.he then phones his 2 older brothers and they come round and start getting abusive towards my grandmother whilest i was cleaning myself up in the downstairs bathroom as i had blood on my face, hand and mouth. and then the boy (he is 23) says his mum and dad will be home soon to finish off.they both come round, but they are reasonable and are going to speak with there 3 sons.i was sticking up for my girlfriend and defending myself against the boy who started being violent towards me and my girlfriend. he is 14, i am 16. i tried to ignore it untill he hit me,thanks
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reader, VietLe  +, writes (13 November 2008):
Good job mate!
Absolutely you did the right thing, Im really glad that you defended youself and others from such jerks. Dont worry about nothing, as you can see all ppl here are showing you support.
Take care.
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reader, littlemomma  +, writes (14 September 2008):
 *clap clap* you DID the right thing. They are the ones who came at you and your girlfriend while you guys were pretty much minding your own buisness...it's not like you started it. Plus after they came at you you didnt get all bully like you just defended yourself no big. So no worries you did good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): Defending yourself or others is NEVER wrong.
It seems that you fought defensively and not aggressivly. I applaud you for this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): No, you did the right thing. They shouldnt of been eyeballing your girlfriend anyway, Shouldnt of said anything to her. I hope your okay. Him having to be 23, was a stupid idea to pick a fight. You'd think he would know better by now. What 23?! Sayn he'll get his parents to finish?
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reader, Shawn E C +, writes (13 September 2008):
Shawn E C is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks sappygirl
just thought id post it here to find out if its right or wrong with what happend
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reader, Q'sAnswered +, writes (13 September 2008):
You totally did the right thing. I would have done the same and for him abusing your grandmother was wrong. Good job in sticking up for yourself and your girlfriend. He was in the wrong, glad there's someone like you around to stick up to people like that.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (13 September 2008):
 You did the right thing. It was self-defense. YOu didn't start it and you didn't have a chance to walk away.
For a 23 year old he seem very immature picking a fight with teenagers then saying "his parents will finish it off"
Hope your okay.
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