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writes:ok.. good girl meets bad boy same typical story. yes i find him very attractive n yes he has a bad past cheated on his last two gf's. i also know its wrong to date him i dont think i wanna date him i jus likes the attention he shows me. but we go to school together so on wefnesdays i get out relatively late n texted him askin him wat time he gets out. he got out around the same time n lives in my area so he took the train together. on the way home he was stayin stuff to me like " he doesnt think i can handle his life cuz he parties n drinks now n doesnt wanna get me involved i agreed with him. when it was time for him to get off the train i didnt let him leave like i told him to sit down. n he stayed wit me n even came home with me , we went to the front of my house and spoke about alot cuz we knew each other for quite some time. i asked him if he thought i slept wit my last bf he said no he didnt think i did. i was like nah i didnt then he asked if im still a virgin i said yea. he was like wat r u waitin for i said till i fall in love. he said that makes sense. at the end of this he tried to kiss me which i refused n turned him down. can u plz explain this to me? n i wanted to kiss him n now i feel like i shud of but i also tell myself i can do better than him plzzzz explain?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): I think you're making this more romantic than it is. Don't build this up into something that it isn't. You say it's "wrong" to get with him with this tone in your voice like he's some kind of star-crossed lover or something. He's not. Guys like this aren't some kind of delicious forbidden fruit, they're just ripoffs. It's like going to the store and overpaying for something crappy because the salespitch was good. It doesn't make this case anything special just because you've been smart enough not to get ripped off before now. It's still just a plain old stupid embarrassing ripoff that you will totally regret later on just like the rest of them, nothing more. Don't cheat yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): There isn't much to explain. I'm sure if you look deep inside yourself you'd find the answers you already seek.
It sounds rly nice though...the whole typical good girl meets bad boy. I'm sure you've heard the story a hundred times but its your life and its for you to experience and make your own decisions.
Have fun and stay sharp
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (6 March 2010):
 Yes you can do better. The only thing that this guy wants to do is separate you from your panties and take your virginity - because he can - it won't be because he loves you. Yes he's a bad boy and he likes that immage of himself. Good girls like you are considered a conquest by guys like that. Trust me the second he gets in your pants EVERYONE will be informed of that fact by him. You will be left to deal with a lot of guilt and shame. Avoid this guy.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 March 2010):
He told you everything you wanted to hear. There were hints about how he wasn't good enough for you, hints about him wanting to change. He's just told you everything he could to make you want to kiss him and it almost worked. Yes, you can do better than a guy who has cheated on his past girlfriends. That's all you need to know about this guy.
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