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36-40,
anonymous
writes:In my dealings with women I've noticed they want men who are desired by other females. I've noticed girls flirt more with guys they know already have a partner and they shun the single guy. Is there something in their DNA that makes them go after the guy who's already committed to someone else?
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reader, natasia  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 There is maybe something in this. If a guy is with someone, on some level as a woman you think he must be ok then, as he has been taken on by some other woman. If a guy is single, you wonder why.
Of course, that's pretty daft, because there are some dreadful monsters in relationships, and some nice guys in between relationships.
Personally if someone is in a relationship I find them more relaxing to talk to, and would not touch them with a barge pole.
The dangerous ones are those who say they aren't really in a relationship as they have effectively separated and just want to get out... Those are the ones to really avoid. Tell them to come back when they're single. And show you some kind of documentary proof of that ... ; )
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reader, MonicaC  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 From an evolutionary stance, the females of any given species prefer the alpha males for reasons of procreation and protection. In the human world, I guess that sort of evolutionary thing is what leads most women to prefer the males that other females have. They presume that if the other females want him, then he must be vital, sexual, and appealing.
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 I believe this is true. I always want what I can't have, and then when I can have it - I don't want it anymore..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): It's just kinda a game I guess.. that's why more females play hard-to-get.
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