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writes:I am an 18 year old guy..I guess I'm kinda attractive..maybe..my only problem is that girls keep pestering me for sex.once a girl told me she would stop disturbing me if we had sex and i agreed so that was it. I am not a sex freak though i 've had sex with quite a number of girls..but i dont feel so right after and i dont usually reject sex drives cuz i try to be nice and moreover i have my own sex drives..i am single at the moment but have sex when i want..PLEASE HELP REALLY NEEDED......
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (1 February 2010):
 Being nice...please. You're having sex because you want to and because it makes you feel good about yourself. If you don't want to do it, then don't.
If you enjoy it then keep doing it. I'd just be careful about STI's and other problems numerous partners can create for you. You don't want to put your health at risk.
Another thing to remember is your reputation. As a guy you will get away with having slept with a number of girls, but when the time comes and you want a nice girl as your girlfriend, she might be put off by all this sex you've had. That's just a thought, I'm not trying to judge you.
Simply put...if you don't want to do it, then don't. And if you really must, look after your health.
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (1 February 2010):
 ...and your problem is? That they are taking advantage of your 'niceness?'. I imagine a lot of guys in your age bracket tho would love to trade places with you ..lol
However, If it makes you feel bad then just dont do it! If you choose to do it knowing how it makes you feel then that is your choice. I don't see how anyone can help you make a different choice when you already know the repercussions of your choices and justify why you do it anyway. Don't be so 'nice' if it bothers you. Simple!
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