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*eff107
writes:I am 22 years old,I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months now.last night she told me that she isn't sure if she can be happy and I deserve someone who is 100% committed to me.she said she wants to take a 2 week break so she can hopefully find out if she can be happy.I don't know what to do.she is a wonderful girl and she has a two year old son that I have grown to love like my own son.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (6 December 2012):
See what anon wrote below.
So many people now a days live in cyberspace they mistake it for the real world. Its not. You have no more relationship with her than you do a character in a romance novel.
Human relationships have been based on close proximity for eons. Our evolution is not likely to catch up with our technology any time soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012): You are dating your computer screen? How's that working out for you?
How on earth do you love someone you've never met and a child you've never met? And why haven't you actually met in person?
Try getting out of your home, and go out and meet a real person and have a real relationship.
You have spent six months living in a fantasy world with someone who is also doing the same. Get a grip.
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reader, Jeff107 +, writes (6 December 2012):
Jeff107 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have seen her every weekend since june 1st2014 of this year.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (6 December 2012):
 If the title of this post is correct - you have never met this girl - let alone dating her.
Go out into the REAL world and meet a REAL girl to date.
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reader, Jeff107 +, writes (6 December 2012):
Jeff107 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirst thing the title is wrong I have met her and I used to stay at her house every weekend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012): Sorry, but this is ridiculous. You are not dating. You have never even met her. You have not learned to love her son because you have never met him. You have created a fantasy world. How can you take a two week break from a relationship that doesn't exist.
Let her go and find someone in the real world.
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