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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been trying to talk to my gf of 4 years about some issues we have been having, mainly her texting, facebook etc all night and how basically I have to say can we watch tv together/ spend time together and shes like yeah at about 11:30pm, then by the time she has logged out etc it is past midnight. I also have to get up for workThe only response I get is if you don't like it you know what to do, or she asks me what I want her to do but if I answer the second question it just turns into a big fight.I don't see why I should have to ask to spend time with her when we inhabit the same house. This has led to her sitting in the bedroom and me sitting in the living room and I feel like I am clock watching till the time I get her atttention, it's not cheating here that I am sure of but what is wrong with her she wasnt like this for the first 2 years but it has just got worse from there She has said before she uses it as an escape as she has got some worries etc but why should I have to feel like I come second all the time when I just want to be with her? she is 20, i am 24
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (5 July 2012):
Only a fool stays after an ultimatum. Id been out the door before she finished the sentence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2012): she says if you don`t like it you know what to do. i would do just that.
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