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writes:I have a question concerning my current Girlfriend. She got caught smoking a reafer on Thursday or Friday. I was extremely disappointed in her cause she was off drugs for over a year now. And I'm totally peeved at her older brother cause he pressured her into it..... And now supposedly she is in 15 days rehab in which case she is not aloud to have any relationships in that time period. Like she didn't want to tell me so she got my bro(not really brother but we are that close) to tell me that she got caught and is on a 15 day rehab thingie and that i can't come over cause she isn't supposed to have any relationships at the time. It would seriously kill me not to hang with her for 15 days.......do you think that i can go over as just a friend not as a bf? thanks and any other thoughts and suggestions are welcome
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 August 2008):
Call her parents and ask them if they think it would be ok.
It shows respect and that you care about her if you are asking their permission and advice. They are more likely to say yes if they know that you are a nice guy and a good influence. It might also help your girlfriend if they knew it was their son who's pushing drugs on her and other people.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (11 August 2008):
 why has she been sent to rehab for smoking weed-america need i say more???
no if they think that her "drug addiction" medical help will be damaged by the presence of another addiction possibilty (sex) then they will say no. say that you want to support her as she needs help from friends and family to overcome this terrible affliction.
if they dont let you see her at least you had a go. try to come from their perspective and agree with everything they say. then add something in like "drugs aren't the answer, frinds and family are whats important" then if they agree ask when friends can visit and then you have your opening...
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