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I found out he's an Escort! What should I do here???

Q.   I have a very strange situation and although i have my own opinions and views, others would be appreciated. To summarise, i met a guy who was involved with someone else and told him he could only be with me if he left her, and so he did, he left ...

A.   26 December 2009: Well, I think it's obvious he loves you, as you have already stated yourself, he has given up a lot for you, and after finding the site, he has taken himself off it at your request. My thinking about the "fully booked up" thing, is just him maki... (read in full...)

Feelings hurt...what's next?

Q.   I have been with my partner for 2years and known him for 3-4, recently he did something that really hurt my feelings to the point that I doubted if I wanted to stay together. I love my partner and realize that he did not hurt my feelings ...

A.   25 December 2009: Just make sure you have a serious and detailed chat about what your problem is, so he knows exactly what is wrong, what he has done, and so he can find ways from preventing it from happening again. If he did it on accident, I think he ought t... (read in full...)

Is she serious about me or not? She never seems to make time for me

Q.   Sorry it’s long. I’m trying to figure out the situation I’m in. I started dating a girl since a week ago… sort of. We’re both in college (I’m going to be a senior starting this fall, and she will be a sophomore). I had a crush on her for a ...

A.   25 December 2009: In all honesty, she's probably just trying to hang on to the free time she gets to herself, and not willing to give up the little free time she has to another cause. It's probably just a very stressful time for her, if your going to win her over... (read in full...)

Trust issues with the boyfriend

Q.   hey there i need alot of edvice on this one...i have trust issues with my bf and i really think that our relationship is getting rocky but i dont want to loose him, we both think we have a some what un healthy relationship becuse of trust isuues, ...

A.   25 December 2009: Yeah. I'm on the receiving end of a relationship like this, in which, because of past events, my girlfriend doesn't trust me as much as I'd like her too, and that doesn't make me mad, that doesn't make me upset, that just makes me want to try even ... (read in full...)

I want to help my ex but I'm not sure how, please advise?

Q.   Ok guys, this question is kind of a follow up to the original problem I was dealing,with, but seems to be a whole different monster, my girlfriend of 8 years, has a very unique and beautiful quality about her, but it is also a double edge sword, she ...

A.   25 December 2009: Well, first of all, I don't think you should feel as bad as you do at this moment in time. She cheated on you, so she clearly wasn't "giving" any thought to your feelings at the time whilst she was having sex with this guy. However, I kn... (read in full...)

Why aren't I happy with a man who gives me everything?

Q.   I have been married once, it feel apart 3 years ago and I moved to a new city where i met Angus. We now live together and everything is fairly sweet, he's an artist and I'm in business promoting that kind of thing. Angus cares for me so much, ...

A.   25 December 2009: I'm at the same stage sexually in my relationship, I never get any kind of sexual attention from my girlfriend, and I know people always say "sex in a relationship is nothing", but they're wrong. The feelings of rejection you get from being turned ... (read in full...)

Everything in life seems against me right now

Q.   Look I don't know why but I always find myself depressed. I lost all my friends. My family is a broken one in which I have no one to relate to. My school work is terrible at this rate i don't see myself succeeding much in life. I'm also gay it's all ...

A.   25 December 2009: I agree with StarFairy. I'm sure if you look into it, you have a few things going for you you may take for granted. You have a roof over your head, it may belong to a broken home, but you do have somewhere to stay. If you ever need someone to... (read in full...)

Girlfriend and ex talks more to each other than me

Q.   ok i recently broke up with this girl for reasons than were explained in my previous question and i have now a new girl friend this is not a bad thing but what is bad is that my current girlfriend and my ex have now become very very close frien...

A.   25 December 2009: Ok, here's the plan of action on this one, one step at a time. 1) Display your distaste for this to your current girlfriend, ask her exactly what your ex has been saying, and if she refuses to tell you, then you have a reason not to trust her. ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid she's going to fall in love with her ex again!

Q.   So im with my Girlfreind, ive been with her a year, and we was best freinds, i mean as close as two people can get without going out, for four years before that. im 18 shes 19 Shes my first girlfreind, im her second boyfreind, the only othe...

A.   25 December 2009: I don't know what to say. I think the best thing to do would be to just try and make her as happy as you can make her, express a slight distaste for the way she compares you to him, and just see how things pan out. That's probably the best you... (read in full...)

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