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Gift ideas (Adult toys) 

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Question - (6 May 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2013)
A male Australia age 41-50, *ord writes:

I'm looking for gift ideas for my wife. Sex toys in particular.

Background:

We've been married for 12 years now. The number of times she's had an orgasm in the first 11 years was less than 11! Even when I went down on her. Last year we moved to a free country and I was able to buy her a butterfly. Since then she has been able to reach orgasm easily and I'm so happy for her.

I'm looking to please her more with a new sex toy. I would appreciate your ideas since I'm not experienced in this field.

More information: She doesn't prefer vaginal stimulation, so it has to be clitoral. She also enjoys simultaneous anal/clitoral stimulation but not always. So it has to be a clitoral toy with anal option.

While I appreciate everyone's ideas, I prefer ideas from aunts who have actual experience in this subject. Please include web links if possible.

Thank you all in advance

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (7 May 2013):

person12345 agony auntClitoral stimulation. There are some heads that some people recommend for anal stimulation though.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (7 May 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntOP,

If you have a shower head in your home now it's very VERY easy to swap it out with a hand held. I did it myself in my apartments. they cost next to nothing (I've seen them here as cheap as ten dollars) and it takes maybe 20 minutes if you don't know what you are doing and 10 if you do... a very simple thing.

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A male reader, Ford Australia +, writes (7 May 2013):

Ford is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you aunts

Yes I agree that taking her shopping is best. The problem is she's too shy. Even buying underwear in public is too difficult for her, let alone sex toys.

So_Very_Confused, thank you. The pocket rocket is a good suggestion. And I'll get a hand-held shower as soon as I buy my own house.

Person12345, thank you. I can't figure out how Eroscillator works. Is it for internal use or external?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 May 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI agree it's a private thing and taking her shopping is a better idea...

I can say that I love my pocket rocket or maybe a jack rabbit would be interesting for her

to be honest a clitoral stimulator will NOT have an anal option so you will need to have two different toys.

also if you do not have a hand held shower massage at home get one...

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (6 May 2013):

person12345 agony auntYou should go shopping with her instead. Every woman is different and it would be good for her to pick. Browse online for reviews first. That said most people think the best overall vibrator ever is the Eroscillator.

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