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writes: I have an ex and we broke up because I cheated on her. I know I was wrong and I know that I hurt her deeply. She means the world to me. The problem is I tried to work it out and put the past behind us and she wouldn't. She said she just wanted to be friends, which I eventually excepted. I begged and pleaded but nevertheless she shot me down time and time again and actually was very mean about it. I don't blame her. The thing is I moved on and I don't exactly have a gf but I have a lot of female friends because I now practice abstinence because I want to be sure I love before I make love again. My ex saw me out with one of my female friends and my friend is beautiful (a model for Loreal). Anyway she calls me and says that I am fool for being with someone else when I tried to make amends with her and move forward but she didn't want it. I feel like I didn't do anything wrong by this. Did I?
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reader, Dr T  +, writes (15 June 2006):
Forget her...she hasnt moved on (bit understandable perhaps) and doesnt want you to either (not at all understandable)
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reader, NightAngel +, writes (15 June 2006):
 To be fair though, you did cheat on her, she is still hurt, but maybe still has feelings for you since she seems to be a bit jealous of your model friend. I would try one more time to mend things with her once more, and just explain the situation. If she still refuses then I agree to just forget about her.
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reader, martini  +, writes (15 June 2006):
 Forget about your ex. If you don't mind losing her to the stench of society, then I suggest you ignore it.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (14 June 2006):
 No you did nothing wrong. Your ex rejected you so many times, what does she expect you to stay single until she wants you back. she decided to be friends and thats all you are. you tried to work out your relationship but she didn't want to.
anyway it really isn't any of her busy as she an ex. she just doesn't want you to move on, she wants you begging and pleding to be with her.
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