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What qualifies you to help people?

~absolutely nothing! i have pretty strong opinions and hope maybe my experience or lack of it could in some far off universe relate to what people are going through.........

Where do you live?

~um, somewhere near the ocean. who the hell would need to know that? are they also gonna ask my street address and what time i will be home alone? freaks, these people who run this site are freaks...........

What makes you tick?

~huh? what a weird question.....i guess that responding to questions that i relate to on some level makes me tick, and yes, i relate to most questions, probably all questions.......i have a tramatic life........jk.................

What's your relationship status?

~even i don't know......it changes every month, maybe week, no every day, even that's too long....................i'd say twice an hour, yeah that's about right. my relationship status changes twice an hour. life isn't worth living unless it's full of love. i fall in love 48 times a day...............

i am young and restless. my life is equipped with drama, and my eyes speak volumes.

Any special rules on DC?

Q.   Are there any rules on this site for answering quesions as an AA? Any rules of etiquette? taboo subjects? good form? Or if this site like a knife fight? (Aint no rules in a knife fight.) I have looked around the site and have not found any. ...

A.   21 April 2009: say whatever you want, taboo subjects are generally what every question is about..........just answer honestly........... Good Luck, H... (read in full...)

Why would an older guy like a much younger girl?

Q.   Why would an older guy like a much younger girl? I'm concrned for my younger sister who is a freshman at 14, dating a senior at 18. I told her no good will come of it, but she isn't listening. If someone could help me to understand why he was so ...

A.   16 April 2009: this is so common.......but, asking if he's there for the wrong reasons, will get you nowhere.......he may love her, or he may be using her.......that's like asking if any guy, regardless of the age difference is in it for the right ... (read in full...)

Signs when someone is gay??

Q.   I think my friend could be gay. What are the signs that he is?...

A.   11 April 2009: I predict you are asking this because you have a crush on him, and he isn't reciprocating at all.......Trust me, I have been there.......It's either one of two things, he's not interested or he's gay, either way, move on. However, you should still ... (read in full...)

Average bedtime for 14/15 year old?

Q.   Heyy!! I was just wondering what the average bedtime for a 14/15 year old is?because it's school holidays at the moment and my bedtime is 9.30 and because it's the holidays, I thought that I could go to bed later than that. But no!! Blatentl...

A.   11 April 2009: I never had a bedtime, it was always my responsibility to handle everything i had to do, and to get sleep.......i really don't know what to tell you, it sounds like your parents have their minds made up, and in that case, it will be nearly ... (read in full...)

My little brother.

Q.   My brother is two years younger than me and has just started dating girls. I find it so sweet but he has just started dating this ugly cow and who doesn't treat him right. Me and my best friend have been talking and have found out that my best frie...

A.   10 April 2009: he will resent you if you try to interfer, but you could mention in passing that she has a crush on him, get those little wheels in his brain turning..... Good Luck, H... (read in full...)

Cute vs Sexy

Q.   I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to hav...

A.   10 April 2009: i don't know if this is helpful or not, but i read once in cosmo that when a guy sees a girl as sexy he only wants her for sex, but when a guy views a girl as cute he sees her as girlfriend potential..........this probably doesn't apply to you, but ... (read in full...)

Am I being that bad to my ex GF?

Q.   I posted on here before and came back to get some more advice. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer ...

A.   10 April 2009: OMG, this is horrible...........i would hate to be arrested by you!!!......you keep asking if you are really that bad, as if you think the answer is going to change, it isn't......you should just stop because after everything you say, the opin... (read in full...)

15 yo and pregnant. Who decides on giving the baby up for adoption: me or my parents?

Q.   Hey. Im 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant. I live in Georgia, and i was wondering if i am pregnant can my parents make me put in up for adoption or is it my choice? Just need some advice, Thanks....

A.   10 April 2009: i've heard, i live in florida, that once you have a baby you are an emancipated minor......meaning, that you can get an apartment or a job that would usually be reserved for someone who is over 18.......but, your mom will have no responsibility for ... (read in full...)

Should I go permanently bald "down there"?

Q.   I've just recently invested in full body laser hair removal. (yay!) But when I went in for the consultation, the consultant told me I need to 'think carefully' about what I do with my pubic hair, because it'll NEVER come back once it's gone. The ...

A.   30 March 2009: SirenaBlusera--------yes, most celebrities walk around with their pants down........when they get out of a car, when they bend over to pick something up, these women have no shame.... (read in full...)

Getting intimate with my bf felt good but now I feel disgusting!

Q.   My boyfriend and I were laying on his bed today and he started asking me if we could "do something" and we've been together for quite awhile now and last time he tried to get me to do something with him, I did a little and told him to stop because I ...

A.   30 March 2009: I felt exactly the same way after I had my first kiss (I was 13). We were only kissing, but later, I felt like I wanted to die......I was just so guilty. I think it was mostly because I grew up in a house where sex was never talked about. Now ... (read in full...)

Why do women prefer being on the top?

Q.   Well, i have a simple question which i couldn't find the answer by myself. I hope your answers will help me... Do the women have more pleasure and have orgasm when they are dominant? I mean when they are riding or when they are controlling the ...

A.   30 March 2009: I agree with satindesire, not all woman enjoy being on top......I personally feel exposed that way, and I would much rather have the man be the dominant one........ (read in full...)

Everyone is calling me a monster because I don't feel anything

Q.   well i don't know what to say about what i am facing. seven years ago my best friend died in a car accident and all my family cried when they heard the news but i did't feel a thing. and two years ago my father died from a heart attack and i was...

A.   20 March 2009: when my mother was sick, i couldn't be around her.......i didn't want to cry around her.......my sister called me a monster too, i know exactly how you feel.......we all deal with things differently......one day something little, minor, not even a ... (read in full...)

Is it true if you haven't yet started your period you can still get pregnant?

Q.   Hello, umm is it true if you haven't started your periods you can still get pregnant? of course you ave to use a condom but I was just wondering if this was true. thankz...

A.   18 March 2009: i agree with finn, i doubt she is pregnant or necessarily having sex, i think this was just a more of a curious question.....anyways i did some research and it appears that the only way a girl can get pregnant is if she is about to start her ... (read in full...)

What do you think of dating your step brother/sister?

Q.   What do you think of dating your step brother/sister? I'm not doing it or anyone else that I know of, I've just been thinking about it for a while and wanted to see what other people thought. I do and don't approve of it. ...

A.   10 March 2009: my cousin fell in love with his stepsister. she was 15 he was 17.......they got married, and had a baby. they are now pregnant with their second child.......they have been married for close to 3 years.......it is really ironic, the marriage ... (read in full...)

Should I be upset or is this texting just not serious?

Q.   My Husband is a OTR truck driver and got a text from a girl that said "no one loves you more than I do, pass this on to 5 people you love." He says that this is not serious that it is more like a game and people just text stuff like that. Should I ...

A.   17 February 2009: you are definetely over reacting, no offense... (read in full...)

My younger sister has been looking at lesbian porn on MY PC!!!

Q.   Dear cupid, I really need some help. I really don't get along with my 10 year old sister.. she gets on my nerves, you dont even know. Well the problem is.. I got on the computer around 12 today and was checking the history and I saw that someone ...

A.   17 February 2009: she's not a lesbian, i don't think...........she's probably just curious about her body all little girls have a desire to experiment with their friends, yes all of them, she is just curious.........you'd be surprised at what she does with out you ... (read in full...)

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