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writes:I'm 14 and I am with my gf for 2 yrs now. We love each other and O don't think we are going to stop anytime soon. She asked for my penis size wen erected one day so i actually measured it and I got somewhere around 3.7 inches. I told her and well she laughed and it made me feel uncomfortable. She teases me and every time I get a boner she makes fun of the size but she has not actually seen it yet should that be ok? I'm wondering does size really matter or is it just a saying? Another thing is that I use to masturbate from time to time. For a while now I have been cumming pretty fast. I never had this problem wen I first did it why am I having it now? She always asks me if I want a hand job and I say no so she gets upset. I am scared that i will cum too quick. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): Don't worry about what she says, 3.7 inches is very ok at age 14. I was 3.5, and it kept growing till I was around 18 years of age.
Maybe you should have a talk with her that it's not OK for her to make fun of you. Maybe she just haven't thought about the fact that it might hurt you. She clearly still likes you, so just be honest to her. She will probably be grateful you told her...
I can honestly say, that it is a good idea to wait a couple of years with doing sexual stuff to each other. A 14 year old is not old enough. Don't grow up too quickly. Let the early teens be focused on something else. But that's not to say that in a couple of years you shouldn't knock yourself out... :)
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reader, OAKWOOD  +, writes (3 January 2010):
14? I am playing games when im 14. enjoy being a kid
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reader, Share Bear  +, writes (2 January 2010):
 If your lass had written in to say that her boyfriend had laughed when she told him her bra size; she would undoubtedly receive the advice to break up with such a cruel and insensitive partner.
The same equality works both ways. She doesn't sound like a girlfriend so much as an enemy. She laughs at you and then asks you to be intimate with her?! Couples should be together because they care about each other- not to embarrass them about intimacies.
You're clearly too young to be taking physical experimentation any further at this point you’re right to turn it down at this age. And maybe her age and immaturity is partly what caused her to react so inappropriately. But if I were you, I would wait for someone more caring and respectful when you are ready to take the next step. –Only share intimacies with someone that you can trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): as long as you get a suck it's laughin'
and don't worry about it just make sure your good with your hands ;)
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reader, Katie-Lou +, writes (2 January 2010):
Your 14...You should grow, dont worry about it. If she laughed, it shows her immaturity and disrespect. No, size is not all that important, 'its the motion of the ocean' :P lol.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 January 2010):
 So what did she say when you asked her why she laughed at you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): Are you seriously wanting a hand job at 14? Come on, theres tons of time for stuff like that, you're too young! Plus at 14, you'll still have a lot of growing to do so don't worry about your size. Personally, I'd move away from this girl as she sounds like shes a bit on the tarty side. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): I think it is really wrong for 13/14 year olds to be giving each other hand jobs or even talking about having sex. Honestly, sex comes with a lot of risks and a lot of responsibilities, and kids as young as you are simply do not make good choices...you all have found another way to be stupid.
She is acting like a low class slut offering her services and wanting to know your penis size and then laughing about it. It shows her moronic attitudes about sex and she hasn't a clue what she is doing, she is "acting as if" she is already adult enough to be getting sexually intimate.
You would be better off staying well away from her and her kind. I hope at 14 you are starting to think a little bit about your future beyond high school, if you have sex with a girl you can easily become a father and ruin the rest of your life and put an end to your dreams before you have a chance.
All this lecture just about penis size and hand jobs? Yes, it is about a trend in teens and preteens about having oral sex and giving hand jobs as if it were as normal as a good night kiss. It isn't normal. It isn't nice. It isn't smart. It isn't moral, it is MORONIC.
Don't rush this trying to grow up thing. You have many more years ahead of you to be a real adult with real worries, real responsibilities and real bills. It is a privilege to be a kid without any responsibilities other than cleaning up your room and doing your homework...don't screw it up by going out with fast girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): I'm a guy. She makes fun of a core part of who you are? For me, a part of what makes an attractive girl is loving this part of what I am. If she doesn't, it's her who doesn't make a good enough partner.
At 14, you are still growing.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 January 2010):
She, like quite a few people are your age, is immature. There is more to a man than the size of his penis. If she continues to make fun of you, then she's not really worth your time.
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reader, pril +, writes (1 January 2010):
Oh don't feel bad it will get bigger. If she is the same age. That is all she can handle anyway.
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reader, lazyman87 +, writes (1 January 2010):
you're 14. i would say when you're 'fully grown' it'll bigger. hardly any boys are fully grown at 14. your girlfriend should realise that.
if you want to cum slower, take your mind off erotic things once in a while. think about mundane things. but still enjoy yourself.
best of luck.
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