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writes:Hi so my fwb and I didn't intend on being fwb well I didn't anyway and we have not spoken for 3 months. now I saw him the other day and tried to ignore him but he kept shouting at me so I waited for him to come over and he aksed how I was and why I hadn't been in touch or why I was going to ignore him. he said he will come round so we can talk I went home and waited all day for him but he didn't turn up. when we were sleeping together he never done this why do you think he did this? also I don't know what to do should I ring him see why he didn't turn but what do I say thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012): Pity you saw him and bought back nice memories, leave him in the past.He cant have forgotten where you live so in that 3 months he could have come to see you.You didn't contact him so you were doin well. Keep on ignoring and find a decent bloke xx
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 August 2012):
 Yeah,let him go and let him be. He never showed up because he never actually meant to, or at least he was not much interested. He had disappeared since over 3 months- obviously he has moved on to newer greener pastures, or just simply moved on when he felt the attraction waning. BUT, still, that YOU ignore him- he must not have liked that. He likes it when he ignores you, not the other way around. And anyway, people love to have different options. He might not be so keen to be with you ( 3 months incommunicado ) but, he still likes to count you among his options. You know, like when you want to fire an employee.. and he quits ? It is like, " What, you cant quit .... I was meaning to fire you next week "
Basically,it was a little power game, he acted in a way that in his eyes reinstates the balance of powers between you.
But... why bother, really. I am sure you can do better than this one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012): I agree with Tisha-1, you can do better than him. Forget him and try and meet other guys. I'm sure there are at least a few who want to go on dates, and maybe a serious relationship.
Good luck!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (5 August 2012):
 He's certainly lazy, isn't he? Expecting you to do all the work?
I think I'd put this one into the history books and look back fondly on what was. I expect he's with someone now, so his time is spoken for. What a lazy man. Sad, ah well, you certainly can do better!!
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