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writes:I met a lass about 3-4 months ago and as soon as we met we just clicked. At first we just became really good friends but then one drunken night we had a kiss and a fondle. She has a boyfriend and I knew that in the first place but I thought it was just a one off drunken night. After that it happened every time I saw her and after the 3rd time we actually had sex. Afterwards she did say that it should of never happened and it would never happen again. Next time I saw her we where kissing and touching etc.... and that's happened a few times after the sex. Now she's actually moved in with her boyfriend even though she admitted to me that she was unhappy. I'm really lost and need some advice please.Anyone got any ideas what I should do? because I'm falling for her and I know it's possible it might just turn out to be a massive disaster?? Let me know please people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Gina, i apriciate ur thoughts. The only thing that i dont understand is why its happened so many time? And why shes moved in with him when she said to me that shes unhappy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): She's probably not happy because of you. You've come between her and her partner, she's probably feeling guilty about it and knows it isn't right what she's doing with you. You've distracted her. Basically, you're the fly in her ointment.
As she's moved in with her boyfriend, that should tell you where her biggest priority lies, and it's not you. And yes, I think it's a disastrous situation - especially if her boyfriend finds out what you've been up to. Guilt is often shared in the hope of reducing it. Just ask yourself who she'd share it with.
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