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13-15,
anonymous
writes:Hey there, ok so i've been with my boyfriend for 2 months, and i recently broke up with him like a few days ago, but i found out that my friend is now dating my ex. Do i have a right to be jealous ?? She's my friend and he's my ex, and personally i think that friends are off limits to ex boyfriends, but she knew how much i liked him, and she waited one day after our break up to get with him, and she acts like she's not doing anything wrong. Do i have a right to be angry or not ?? thanks so much, i really do appreciate it
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reader, gunnerlil  +, writes (7 September 2009):
Hell yeah! You have a right to be angry and annoyed. Exes are off limits to and friend worth that label.
If she is a true friend she wouldn't be with him.
Talk to her and tell her how you feel, maybe put her in your situation. If she doesn't share your oppinion then maybe you're better off without them both.
Hope this helped.
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reader, peachstone  +, writes (7 September 2009):
I agree with you. Exes should be off limits to friends. Cuz it makes me think that she was busy checking him out when you were together and how can you trust someone like that as a friend? i don't blame you for being angry, she is not being much of a friend.
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reader, sexlessintheuk +, writes (7 September 2009):
 Yeah, this is generally not on, but she is very young. You could play with wise card and not let on how much this bugs you. Make a mental note of how much your friend actually cares about YOU. That's right, not much! Time to gradually let this friendship fade I'd say. Don't do anything rash or embarassing, and certainly do not let yourself down by getting into some kind of fight over a boy! Be strong and grown up! x
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