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writes:I've liked this guy for four years. I can't believe the way I feel about this boy. I've tried getting over him, I really have. We are about to graduate should I tell him how I really feel, even though I'm really shy to talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): If you have the opportunity to create a some form of connection or relationship, do not wait until it is too late. In a way, you've invested a lot of thought and emotion into this, and it would be a huge disappointment down the line to think you could have established a friendship, and opened up the possibility for more. I can relate in a way, because there is a man I was very loosely acquainted with for the past eight years, and about four or five years in, both of our lives changed in such a way that no longer meet. I know we had some kind of connection, though it was never fulfilled in any way, and I really regret that I may never see him again, though I do know a couple of his friends. Anyway, do SOMEthing, not nothing, just try to spend more time around him and venture simple conversation. You should not contrive anything, but also not let it get away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): The worse anyone can say to you is no...You like this guy so much then why let yourself wonder "what if?" Just invite him somewhere...hell just to your house...say it and look into his eyes, that will say everything you will ever need to know about him
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): umm i know how u feel about this bc i have liked this guy for almost three years now and we havent dated off and on but the only way he is gonna know is if u tell him. try txting him or writing him a letter... anything.. just dont hold back bc the longer you hold back then tht gives him more time to find a different girl. im pretty sure u want tht to be u so all i have to say is that you need to tell him.. trust me... i have been there done tht and if u really like him then go for it.. i say chase your dreams!!!! hope i helped you some.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): Yess!! Talk to him! Don't go through life wondering, 'What if?'Have you ever heard of the quote:Love not spoken, love not shown, love not given, is a love not born. And don't be afraid to talk to him. Especially now that you're graduating. Even if you do mess up (And don't think you will) you probably wouldn't see him as much since you won't go to school together anymore. If you're too scared, all you have to do is get a friend to say it out loud while he's there so he'd find out. Don't get a friend to tell him though, just make it seem like an accident, and he overheard.But, it's still better to say it to him yourself.
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