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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, and like all relationships we've had our ups and downs, and he cheated on me in the first year. It's been a couple of months, which i have started talking to my manager at work, basic flirting, of which he has a girlfriend too. But recently i have found myself falling for him and i have reassured him that nothing will happen as long as am with my boyfriend. We have shared kisses at work during lunch breaks etc, but i end up feeling really guilty afterwards. Talking to my manager is a basic satisfaction as my boyfirend cheated before, but I am starting to develop feelings for my manager.. but still love my boyfriend.. please help.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (17 June 2009):
 So lets see....
Your boyfriend cheated on you, you stay with him, and now you are about to sink to his level?
Good Job!
Listen up, revenge cheating(whether you have feelings for him or not) does not ever lessen the pain that you were caused by your boyfreind. It only makes you no better than he is.
Not to mention all the hell that could come down the line since this is your SUPERIOR!
So maybe you'll get your revenge that you secretly crave. But at the expense of what?
do I even have to start listing them? It will take an hour.
The best advice you can get is for yopu to Grow Up, Tell your Boyfriend what you are doing and take responsibility for your actions by ending your relationship.
This will end badly I assure you. You are far too immature to be in any kind of relationship with anyone at this time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): Doesnt it worry you that even though your manager has a girlfriend he is kissing his workmate (you)? He is cheating on his girlfriend which is exactly what your boyfriend did to you.If you did dump your boyfriend and start dating your manager he may do the same thing again to a different workmate or person?
I say stop the manager thing. You`ve had the feeling of satisfaction which regarding to what ive been through I understand more than well but it needs to stop.You are cheating and so is your manager.
So stop this manager flirting and stay with your boyfriend. You still love him so it may end up well.
Its your decision so good luck
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