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First time sex was this normal?

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Question - (10 December 2017) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2017)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I had sex for the first time and I noticed it wasn't that comfortable. As it was my first, I assumed it was just a matter of getting used to it.

However at one point, it really hurt and was uncomfortable around my bum which I wasn't sure about. Like is that normal ?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2017):

Iv had sex that is normal

Ye ull get used to it??????

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (18 December 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntYes it does hurt. As it is your first time and even for the next while your partner needs to be gentle with you and make sure he uses plenty of lubrication and goes gentle. It does get better.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (12 December 2017):

BrownWolf agony aunt

Yes...first time sex hurts...Normal.

Hurts more if the guy has no patience, and no clue.

You need to relax...or try going on top so that you control how fast.

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A male reader, Been there Now over it United States +, writes (11 December 2017):

Try a Google search for "first time sex pain." It'll bring up over 3 million links. So yes, it is normal. Take a look at a few of these links and they'll enlighten you as to what's happening with you. Don't worry...it'll get much better!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2017):

I'd say it's pretty normal. It being your first time you are very tight. The first time I had sex it hurt like heck and I had no orgasm. There seemed to be an almost burning sensation. Go carefully and soon your body will adjust itself and you'll find it very pleasurable.

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