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First time sex and I orgasmed way too fast. I think it pissed her off! What can I do?

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Question - (22 November 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2011)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I had sex for the first time last week not only with my girlfriend but also my first time. The problem was that I was lucky to make it last 5 minutes before I, basically, came out too soon. She says its ok but I'm pretty sure she's pissed off. Is this normal to happen?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2011):

Well theres nothing wrong with that . Some times u cant help for cuming to fast . Here is what u need to do start masturbateing it will help u to control your orgams . And the next time that u have sex just take your time and go slow

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A female reader, scared16 +, writes (19 December 2006):

scared16 agony auntyes its fine as it was your fine time the feeling was new to you. as you continue 2 have sex you will learn how 2 control your orgasm n it will last a lot longer. have fun x x x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006):

Don't worry this is actually very normal during first time sex because of excitement and the unusual pleasures your body's receiving. You will quickly adapt, don't worry you will last longer and I doubt that she is pissed off however, if she was then maybe you should try pulling out a little before you're about to come and pleasure her to the point of orgasm then go back to having sex so that the both of you come together.... but only if you see this is going to happen again.

Good Luck...Update us xx LeilaChick

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006):

Yes agreed, completely normal. Explain to her that this is what happens when you are new to sex, you should very quickly be able to last longer. There is a lot to learn about sex, for both of you. Preferably you can feel safe together and trust each other, that way you can be able to talk about these things, good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006):

This is very normal for first timers. I doubt she was actually pissed off. She should understand that males tend to have an outer body part that gets a lot more easily aroused than a female's internal sexual organs.

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