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Do teen girl masturbate as often as teen boys?

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Question - (22 November 2006) 85 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

hi, do teenage girls masturbate as often as teenage boys?

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A male reader, auden United Kingdom +, writes (22 June 2008):

all that i know is that my sister masterbates about as often as i do. three or four times a week. we live with our mother. she has told us what we do under the sheets or in the bathroom is our own buisiness.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

I just turned 15. My freshmen year I tried cutting down to 2-3/week. Now I Wack it 2-3/day. I felt that every time I shake it, something bad happens to me. But now its summer and I got nothin to worry about!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

Yes. Studies show that girls canbe just as sexually active as guys. There might not be as many girls that masturbate as guys, but for those that do, they might do it as much as a normal teen guy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008):

u masturbate like every second day. i dont know how it started, but it was a mistake ha! it helps you get to sleep

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008):

Im 16 almost 17 in a month or two. I have been Masturbating probably 2 times a day on average since i was about 11 years old. And i have also been asking myself the question "Which sex masturbates more" But i think it just varies on how easily aroused you get and also your personality. (everyones different). But i think you will find that men and women Masturbate just as much as each other. But in todays society people doubt that women masturbate more/ as much as men, This is because generally women tend to keep to themselves about it unlike most men do but yes im pretty sure that men and women do it as often as each other.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

hi all

well i'm 15, gonna b 16 in 7 months (YAY!) and i have been masturbating since i was 12. But I'm not sure if guys or girls do it more, and no one can ever really know cuz girls dont know wat guys do, and guys dont know wat we do. Unless someone like studies people, and the things they do, but thats just weird! So looks like will never know.

f.y.i during the school year i maturbate during the week like 3 times, weekends like 20.

during the summer i masturbate about 5-7 times a day, more on weekends!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008):

Girls pobably masturbate too. They are just not open about it as much as we guys are. I masturbate about 2-3 time a week, and I have never been caught. I also suggest that all you guys shouldn't do it as much because you wont get a very stiff erection and you would have a lower sperm count.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008):

I'm male, 15, and i love to masturbate. It's amazing. I do it at least 3 times a day, and try to do it more. Girls do masturbate, just not as often, although there are some girls who do it as often as me! I think girls should, theres almost nothing hotter than seeing a girl your own age masturbating....

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008):

no one is sure. one thing we can be sure is that boys admit it more than girls do. i think they masturbate about the same. it's commonly known that boys masturbate more than girls, but i don't think that's true. it all depends on what kind of person you are. there could be a boy that masturbates once every 2 weeks, and a girl that masturbates 3 or 4 times a day, or vice versa. there are lots of things that could affect it, genetics, they could be embarrased about it, having wet dreams instead of masturbation, they could be sexually active with a partner, maybe depressed, or they might just not like masturbation as much as as someone else.

i'm 13 and i've been masturbating since i was 11. i don't think it matters how much someone masturbates.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008):

Im 14 and i masturbate about 5-8 times a day!

Ive been doing it since i was about 8-9 years old!

i do it because it makes me feel happy and i dont have to worry about getting pregnant, and even though im embarased of it, i also watch alot of porn on the computer and masturbate while watching that

xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

i think guys admit it more, girls sometimes are too scared of sexual stuff

im 13, and i do

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

im a guy i masterbait every day and i love it it is great when you cum and it is good also relives stress and i recomend it when u do your exams down to the point i relly dont know girls relly dont talk about it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008):

Me and one of my best friends used to play "touch" when nobody was around and then when we got older we experimented more and now we totally can make ourselves come in front of each other like it is completely normal.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008):

kay so im 12 and ive been starting to masterbate since ths year. I believe that girls masterbate a little bit less than guys do. I masterbate for 2 reasons ;

1. it feels good.

2. it releaves stress!

its okkay to masterbate, its totally natural. dont worry about it mostly everyone does.

girls usally dont admit to doing it.

&& boys admit it haha.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

I suppose girls do but they wouldn't admit it as much.

I'm 15 and I have been masturbating every day of the week for years. Sometimes I do it with a friend but we are not gay it's just that some one else jerking you off feels much better than just doing yourself.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008):

This topic has been bugging me forever!

I've been asking all my girl friends (ages 15 - 17) this and NONE of them admit they do. In fact, non say they ever have. They say that when they're horny, they just don't do anything. Riiight. I can tell you one thing though, 30 - 60% of girls masturbate, 80 - 90% of males do, and the rest LIE. It's a natural body function, such as eating, sleeping, and exercising. And it's also good for you! :D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008):

Nobody can answer this question....Boys don't know what girls do and girls don't know what boys do.Think of that.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008):

The only reason males Masterbate more is cause we produce the fluids to feterlize the egg in females. And if we dont masterbate and have sexual intercourse the sperm will be no good. And girls just do it for fun. Maby even to sleep better at night

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

i am thirteen going to be 14 in four days and i can honestly say that i have never masterbated. i think about it ALOT! and i also think about sex ALOT... i do watch porn, because i'm eager to know about different ways to go about sex. but when it comes to masterbating, i feel that if i do... i would be considered a dirty slut. so i would say that boys masterbate more than girls do

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

im 14 and i have been masturbating since i was 11. I think it varies depending on the persons situation.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

hi

I'm 16 and have been master bating since is was about 8/9

i think that boys and girls do it just as much as each other

just that boys are more open.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008):

Guys seem to admit to it more!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008):

I think boys and girls both masturbate equally. It just depends on the person. Guys are definetly ore up front about it than girls. I'm 14 and i've masturbated since i was 12. I used to think it was wrong but know i know it's perfectly normal.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008):

sorry to the guy who made this poll a long time ago for getting these emails.

Im 15 I masturbate a few times a day sometimes every other day, but i think its a natural urge for a guy to need to expel the fluids or else they build up and the guys are super horny.

I've asked one of my best friends if she masturbates(me and her have a strong relationship so asking stuff like that is okay)

and she said she has but she said she finds it very weird and thinks its a little creepy.

i think she isnt comfortable with her sexuality yet, and i think thats how alot of girls are, i remember i read somewhere that girls start masturbaiting and stuff normally around 17 and 18

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008):

this thing is normarl and everyone do it. i think it is equal

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

Hi I am a 67 year old male and have been masturbating almost every day since I was 12 in fact for many years I masturbated several times a day so the average will be more than once a day, I have now slowed down but still masturbate once a day, I have always been facinated by females going to the toilet and just love to watch/listen to my wife on her first visit of the day to the ensuite opposite the bed.

In contrast my wife who I have known for 50 years has very rarely masturbated even as a teeenager but will give me a private showing occasionally on request, so my own experience is definitely that females do not masturbate as much as males.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

No they dont, girls do feel good when they masturbate, like us men do, but we guys feel the need, our instinct is much stronger than theirs, so we do it a lot more

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008):

I reckon Males masturbate more often Females do, but girls do it as much as guys. They're just more shy to say it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008):

before reading all of these posts i thought that what i was doing was dirty and wrong. yet i enjoyed it.. i always felt guilty after masturbating now after reading this i feel so much better.. and i can enjoy it more ;)

and to add i think its a male sterotype that they masturbate more than girls i think people think its more normal for guys to do it.. i would say that its pritty much even .. teens like to experiment

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008):

i do it tooo and i dont count how many times i do it a dy but more than 2-3 times daily

i have never tried it with any gal but it pleases me upto a stisfactory limit

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008):

I think teen guys masturbate more NOT because of society, but because just as many teen boys dont like admitting that they masturbate as teen girls, believe me. I know that cuz i'm a guy myself and i did not like admiting to anyone that i do it, and there are no guys i know from anywhere including my school, that openly say they masturbate, where did this thing saying girls don't admit doing it cuz of society supresses them, come from??? The excuse that girls don't do it as much as guys cuz they're too shy to admit they do, is not a good enough excuse i'm sorry, we need better research and explanations than that, cuz guys don't like admitting it either... i know i never did... and what's so badddd that girls dont like doing it as much?? please someone tell me what's the bad thing about that??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008):

Girls do it just as much as guys, as far as I'm concerned. We just don't admit to it. It's more socially acceptable of course for boys to than girls. I'm 16 and have been at it about...every other day since I was 12.

I love looking up porn and getting my guys friends to send me their favorite vids. XD Hey, don't be so selfish, chicks can enjoy their sexuality too!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008):

the most open web page i have ever read to date. and yes i do it . nothing like busting double nut, still awesome after all these years. better then getting a std from a one night stand from the wrong woman at the bar. no thanks. i can handle it myself. my g/f more then willing to help and i always like to return the favor. so at 34 plus things work fine.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008):

when i ask girls if they masterbate they say they do it at least 2 times a day.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008):

Im 14 and i masturbate about 5-8 times a day!

Ive been doing it since i was about 8-9 years old!

i do it because it makes me feel happy and i dont have to worry about getting pregnant, and even though im embarased of it, i also watch alot of porn on the computer and masturbate while watching that

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008):

boys definitely masturbate more than girls. this is because of our culture and how it is mor acceptable for boys. there is a very large kind of sex culture for boys and if you look up porn, etc most of it is geared towards boys and boys are expected to masturbate and its a lot more accepted whereas with girls its alot less discussed and not so much portrayed in the media so they are less comfortable with their sexuality. alot of girls act sexual but that is jsut an act because of our society and the male gaze

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008):

im 16 years old and have been masterbating since i was 10 it fells so good. i do it everynight.i love to rub my clit

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

ok im 14 and yes i do masturbate, and it does feel good. it helps me when im stressed sometimes

so yeah i do think girls do it as much as guys.(i know i do it like 3 or 4 times a week) and no i'm not some fat girl the can't get none, but i'm kinda horny

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007):

i am 14 and i masturbate im scared to admit it but it feels good i sometimes sit in front of my computer and watch porn

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007):

yes im 14 and i love to use all kinds of methods and i recomend it to everybody i mean afterall it is healthy.

my mom is a doctor and she came up to me when i was 10 and told me about masturbating. "it is good for u honey" and shit well i have felt better ever since i started and my bf does it to me too and i love it so much he only does it so i dont get pregnant

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007):

yes they do

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007):

I am thirteen years old and i do it like every night! i must be one horny damn bugger. lol. Anyways ya it's relaxing and it satisfies me, and it is really fun

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007):

ok well, i started like when i was 8, and like yeah i masturbate a few times a day. Im 13 and its better when your bf does it do to u. Or in your case.. your gf...

but i think girls do it was much as boys

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007):

Im a teenager and I masturbate about 3-4 times a day!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2007):

Girls may not admit to it as readily as guys, but when I was at a all girls sleepover recently, we all admitted to doing it. I think it is just natural to explore your body and when you find that sweet spot...OMG! You just want to keep going back over and over again, right?! Nyway, who cares what other people think!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007):

ok,ok. its ok. im 14 and i do it. i do to to take my mind of of bad things. it works. its hard for me to do at night because i have a water bad so i have to becareful not to do it so hard.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007):

yeah im pretty horny and although i would never admit it to anyone, i do masturbate quite often. it often happens and im not even thinking about it then i realise im playing with myself lol so no worries. just dont boast about it like guys do cos its the kind of thing you sould keep private

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007):

ya im a 14 year old guy and i masturbate about 1 every day and maybe 2 on a weekend. I hate to say it but i have been walked in on by my mom...UGHH and even more embarsing my friend who came over without letting me know and walked right in. He says he has been scared for life! lol well ya i have had some embarrassing moments while masturbating.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007):

Im 50 years old and still enjoy masterbation. It relaxes me and releases tension. The best materbation is with your wife or girlfriend and you both do it to each other at the same time. Girls don't be afraid of using a vibator. My wife has used one for many years and it really helps to get help off. The trojan company just came out with a new vibrator for men that you put around your penis for either materbation or intercourse. It is made of really soft rubber and its great. Give it a try its with all the rubbers on display. Enjoy everyone.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007):

That first girls post.

You aewsome :)

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A female reader, teengirl United Kingdom +, writes (2 November 2007):

teengirl agony auntyes i think girls masturbate just as much as boys! its just they dont admit it. im 14 and i have been masturbating most days since i was 11 or 12. recently i have been doing it daily due to exams and it really keeps me relaxed. i get home from school and have dinner, then spend about half an hour mastubating in many different ways...i get so wet and horny I LOVE IT!! oooooo it feels so good. especially with the shower right on my clit!! ahhhhh!! im not afraid to admit it :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007):

man...masturbation felt like such an addictive crime when i was younger. I'm 18 now and pretty comfortable with the fact I jerk off, trying to keep it around 2-3 times a week. I think society in general needs to loosen up about sexuality. I mean, think about how we look at it being more acceptable to watch lions rip open buffalo on National Geographic than watch them mate.

...then again, doing something that's taboo is always exciting!